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Talking about my son died..is that using him to get sympathy Sergie & Gabriel's Mom+1 Due October 17 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New Jersey 10227 posts
Nov 7th '09

Basically I this trashy girl who has nothing to say got the nerve to tell me that I keep talkin about my son... basically using him as a weapon to get sypathy and get people to feel sory for me...

Am I not aloud to talk about him? What if thats helping me through the grieving process? Am I supposted to keep my mouth shut because if I dont its using him as a weapon to get people to feel sorry for me?

Does she honetly think I would rather have people feel sorry for me then have him here?

The b***h actually got the audasity to tell me that my baby is not the first and not the last to die....yea she really did.... and that she COULD say but she wont is that at least her kids are still here.... Oh yea..and dont forget about...What did I do to prevent my son from dieing?...yupp deff asked me that..yuppp...cuz u kno..i just said f**k it i am not doing anything..just let him die..yup thats wut i did..... I dont know but it beats me what kind of a MOTHER could say some shit like that to a mother who lost her kids.....and wen i tell her how fucked up that is...yup im useing him aas a weapon to get sympathing and win an arguement....

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

I dont know but I wouldnt say no shit like taht to my worst enemy

Rebekah *HAMMERTIME* Due April 6 (boy); 1 child; Maine 3215 posts
Nov 7th '09

was she on here??

♥Danielle+3♥ 3 kids; Oregon 52371 posts
Nov 7th '09

you do post a lot but everyone grieves differently and if talking about it is helping you then by all means post away! I don't think you are using him to get sympathy at all! That girl sounds like a heartless b***h!

Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2633 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:
Sergie & Gabriel's Mom+1 Due October 17 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New Jersey 10227 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting Rebekah *Pregnant with #2:
user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:
Fierce Mama 1 child; Houston, Texas 74725 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:
She Almost 1 ♥ 1 child; Virginia 1642 posts
Nov 7th '09

Don't worry about her.

Proud_MaMa_ Toms River, New Jersey 12390 posts
Nov 7th '09

I think that's the hardest thing in the world. No mother would know until they are truly in that situation. We all grieve differently. It's better to get it out then bottle it in........ She's a c**t......

....,...... 1 child; New York 5737 posts
Nov 7th '09

did you provoke her? sounds a little too mean to be out of nowhere. but it might have been. im just wondering

Fierce Mama 1 child; Houston, Texas 74725 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting ♥ B ♥:
Sergie & Gabriel's Mom+1 Due October 17 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New Jersey 10227 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting Platypus:
*YourMom* Due September 14; 2 kids; Pennsylvania 7298 posts
Nov 7th '09

I've been told my uterus was too poluted to keep my babies. I've miscarried twice.

It's normal to talk about them. He was a major part in your life. I don't think you're trying to get sympathy. Some women are just b***hes and don't understand or don't care to understand. They have a set opinion in their head and nothing will change that.

Sorry you went through this. It's sad when any mom looses a child and is persecuted for it.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting Platypus:
Sergie & Gabriel's Mom+1 Due October 17 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New Jersey 10227 posts
Nov 7th '09
Quoting Fierce Mama: