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Worst Case, Come True MissRita 17 kids; Staten Island, New York 124 posts
Aug 20th '09

Truly need to vent so I choose my baby-gaga moms....



WORST thing that can happen during pregnancy???
Relationship not quite working with your SO, No time with your SO, How about your SO getting another female pregnant???



How about all of the above is what Im going through...Last night I was on the verge of suicide and I was so serious. I NEVER been more hurt in my entire 20 years of living..Like the person who I thought would have enough common sense let alone be smart about what he doing completely lets me down. Im not even upset, Im disappointed, and the type of girl she is, I dont see an abortion happening cause shes so stuck on how differently he treats us..& honestly its her body and her decision, so I dont blame her for whateva she wants to do...He keeps sayin sorry and how he knows he f***'d up but hes gonna fix it, but honestly I dont see anything working out where hes gonna get her to get rid of her baby though shes still fairly early(prob about 2 or 3 weeks)...Idk, a part of me wants to just let it work itself out because I honestly love him and want a family for my child but then a part of me wants to get rid of the baby and not deal with anything..Im so torn because Im so attached to my baby but I cant see myself going through this if she really does keep it..OMG..Im jus so hurt and dont know what to do..




SOLUTION::: Worrying about ME & My Baby..It was a hard time and I truly have 1 person beside myslef to live for and that will be all the joy I need...

Thank you ladies for your words and helping me see a little better that all my focus needs to be center elsewhere.

Vanessa ♥ 1 child; Quincy, Massachusetts 27901 posts
Aug 20th '09
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Noah + Baby#2 Due November 16; 1 child; Massachusetts 874 posts
Aug 20th '09
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Connor's mom♥due i Due October 14; 81 kids; Brandywine, Maryland 9162 posts
Aug 20th '09

hunny i am so sorry, i understand you feeling hurt and i don't have alot of great advice but i you ever need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to pm me. im sorry your going thru this

TheAirForceEXWife 2 kids; Texas 30826 posts
Aug 20th '09
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Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
Aug 20th '09

I dont know if thats the worst thing ever....but it still sucks.

kmg 2 kids; Pennsylvania 18709 posts
Aug 20th '09

It really sucks that you are in this situation. Regardless of what he or the other woman decided to do you have to do what is best for you and your unborn child.

2+2=Done 20 kids; Orange, California 3135 posts
Aug 20th '09
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IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44107 posts
Aug 20th '09
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Crackeddy Ann 1 child; Maryland 7835 posts
Aug 20th '09

Wow OP, I'm sorry you are going through this.
First off... I know people can make it work after someone cheats, I am not the kind of person to stick around for that but...yea.
Here's the thing... you can not make yourself fully dependant on him and his love and what he chooses to do. You do for you and your baby. That's it. If he figures out a way to prove to you that he can be trusted from here on out, then that's up to you to continue or not, of course.

I'm a little put off by the focus of her aborting this baby in this situation...?

You are in the thick of an emotional roller coaster right now.Give yourself time to get yourself together andget your thoughts together. Focus on what you know you need in your life as far as what he's done... as far as who he is.

"Sometimes lovejust isn't enough".. is cliche for a reason. Because it's true.

Elmos girls 1 child; Lewisville, Texas 324 posts
Aug 20th '09
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JoAnna &hearts's Jett 2 kids; Midlothian, TX, United States 7992 posts
Aug 20th '09

I don't think the worst thing that could happen during your pregnancy is having some dumb ass cheat on you.. That's no reason for you to abort your baby, that's actually a pretty stupid reason. IMO

Joan Crawford TTC since Sep 2010; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Bradenton, FL, United States 18711 posts
Aug 20th '09
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MissRita 17 kids; Staten Island, New York 124 posts
Aug 20th '09
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Joan Crawford TTC since Sep 2010; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Bradenton, FL, United States 18711 posts
Aug 20th '09
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