I have no idea what my problem is. user banned
Aug 18th '09

Ever since my recent second miscarriage, I have been a crazy person. I cry constantly, I'm irritable, and I get so angry at everyone and everything. I've convinced myself that my husband hates, is cheating on me, wants to divorce me, or all three.I know it's totally illogical, but I can't help it.

I seriously cry over everything. Someone can raise their eyebrow at me, and I'm in hysterics.I'm totally ridiculous at work, I can't deal with the slightest annoyance without freaking out.

I'm not usually like this. I'm normally a pretty chill, go with the flow type of person. It'snot even about the baby. It's EVERYTHING. Everylittle tiny thing makes me freak out. Ugghhh I hate it.

sorry for the rant.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Aug 18th '09

Have you thought about getting some counseling?

I'm sorry for your loss...

Astraia NMD 2 kids; Quebec 23817 posts
Aug 18th '09

You could still be dealing with a hormonal imbalance. Sometimes it can take a long time for the hormones to come back to "normal" levels.

Could be depression related too. I second the advice to speaking to your dr or a counsellor about it.

user banned 50 kids; Ohio 5802 posts
Aug 18th '09
Quoting speaktruth2powr:
ashley♡ 2 kids; Texas 10226 posts
Aug 18th '09
Quoting *Brittanie*:
Waiting 4an angel Pennsylvania 4460 posts
Aug 19th '09

I did the same thing after the MC...I was illogical & irrational and I mowed down everyone in my path. If you have a chance to talk to someone, I would. I really wish i did at the time.
I have been thinking about you. ((HUGS)) I am always here if you want to talk.

user banned Due December 8 (boy); 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
Aug 19th '09

Aw. I'm sorry Brit. I'm no help but I'm here for ya

Deleted_profile 17 kids; Beverly Hills, California 1699 posts
Aug 19th '09

How long ago was your miscarriage? I'm thinking hormonal imbalance also, couple that with the loss and it's natural you're feeling like this. It's been a few weeks for me (since m/c and d&c) and I'm just now starting to feel like my normal self. Like I won't burst out crying or slap somebody in a split second. Hope you feel better soon!