I'm Bella, and my best friend has had 2 miscarriages. She had one in November of 2008, and one of May of 2009. She's been having an extremely hard time with this, and she had a few words to say to all of you that have delt with the same things as her.
Losing a baby is the toughest thing that can happen to a woman or girl. What's the hardest thing is seeing other people with there baby's. When I had my first miscarriage, I TRIED to get pregnant again...even though I was a teenager. I wanted a baby so bad. Then I ended up getting pregnant and was so over joyed. I lost the 2nd baby too, and I have totally lost the desire to get pregnant again. Both of my girls were at about 20 weeks (more or less) when I had the miscarriage. Tell your story and know that you're NOT alone.
Anny and Bella.
RIP Jenna Loraine (my first baby girl) and Abby Laurel (my 2nd).
I know you are trying to be supportive but there are some things you should just keep to yourself.
carefull people will bite yur ass for TTC while a teen on here!
She obviously wasnt ready for a child. That's clear as day. You dont TTC as a teenager unless you're a very selfish individual. smh.
To everyone who's being rude on here... She said she was ttc AFTER a miscarriage. Idk about any one else who has miscarried before but after I did I was trying everything I could to get pregnant again, I was 19 and married and my husband did not want me to get pregnant again and I even went as far as tricking him because I was so desperate! I doubt she was ttc when she got pregnant the first time and if she was then yeah, bad idea! I'm not saying she should have been ttc again but after the first miscarriage it is a very normal and very powerful emotional reaction to want a baby in your belly again right away... and that feeling can throw all rational thinking out the window completely. She isnt still trying to get pregnant she was just reacting normally to the hurt of losing a child!
I'm 15 and I got pregnant.
The day of my five weeks I started to bleed, so I went to the ER.
They said I have a threatend miscarriage and I was soo heartbroken.
But I still had hope (: So, like the next week I went to the doctors and I had thought that I had lost the baby already. But, they said my levels were going up and what not (: And I saw my baby I named it Miricale. But, the doctor said that because of the way the sac is shaped I am going to miscarry I refused a D&C because if I was misdignosed I still though I would have the baby. They called the next day with the results (Blood work) And said that my levels are going down. This is possibly the hardest thing I had ever have to go threw. I had to do it all by myself no one knew what it was like the guy who got me pregnant was happy that I was having a miscarriage and my mom didnt know what I was going threw. I am only 15 so my friends had no clue how it even felt like. I had to go threw alot in my life but this is so emotionally and physically draing. Tell your friend that I hope she has a baby and that she has angles looking after her. And, that I know what she is going threw and it is hard and just try to get enoughf support as you can. I know I am I just losted the baby last week and its extremly hard. But shes not alone (:
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