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being reminded...vent *Kierstin* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Belle Chasse, Louisiana 1523 posts
Mar 27th '09

I keep coming accross things around the house like "congratulations on your new baby" and a bunch of 'watch your baby grow magazines'. Its so depressing, i'm really trying to be strong about it and just let it go...i don't know how long i'm allowed to be upset for. I just had the D&C yesterday and i feel like i'm supposed to be moving on, but its upsetting.
My hubby says he doesn't want to try for another baby for like a year, but he doesn't understand, i was supposed to have my baby this october. and my cousins are due the same time, i'm going to have to be reminded of it then too. This sucks so bad.... you never think this is going to happen to you.
My mom had 4 miscarriages btwn my brother and sister, i'm hoping this doesn't happen to me because i don't know if i can go through this again.
sorry for the long vent..

||Bee|| & ||SebZ|| 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Hollywood, CA, United States 1132 posts
Mar 27th '09

sorry for ur loss mama..i know how u feel♥ ***huggs***

bryson 's mom 1 child; Oklahoma 863 posts
Mar 27th '09

im sorry for your loss.

*eom* 35 kids; Washington 8510 posts
Mar 27th '09

Im sorry for your loss, it takes time. After my first m/c i didnt want to face anyone. After my second i was crushed. It still hurts thinking about it. I became pregnant right after my second loss and im worried everyday about this baby. When i asked for my pregnancy confirmation they sent me my old one
"due august 17th" that was a smack in the face. And when i went to the doctor last week, the nurse said "Congrats your 18 weeks today, do you feel the baby move" I wanted to throw up.
I can say the pain does get easier to deal with, but it never goes away. I pray that your next pregnancy is a healthy 40 weeks

*Kierstin* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Belle Chasse, Louisiana 1523 posts
Mar 27th '09
Quoting soon to be mom of 2!:
coloradocuppycake Colorado 42 posts
Mar 27th '09

Im sorry you are going through this. I took one morning and packed
everything up in boxes. I cried like hell doing it. Im sorry honny that
you have to do this too.

Maisons Mommy 21 kids; Carmichael, California 8335 posts
Mar 27th '09
Quoting *Kierstin*:
*Kierstin* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Belle Chasse, Louisiana 1523 posts
Mar 27th '09
Quoting Maison's Mommy:
Maisons Mommy 21 kids; Carmichael, California 8335 posts
Mar 28th '09
Quoting *Kierstin*: