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16 kids; la, ca, United States 18 posts
Dec 28th '08


Buh Byyyyyye Batman, Turkey 50586 posts
Dec 28th '08

Sorry for your loss.



I think its your body and you shouldn't make a choice you aren't 100% sure of.

Sody's party of six 6 kids; Lancaster, Ohio 10094 posts
Dec 28th '08

Awww.....Im sorry to hear about your baby :(

♥Briea♥ 2 kids; San Antonio, Texas 4524 posts
Dec 28th '08

Im very sorry for your loss. Unfortunatly i dont really have advice from a personal stand point. But you need to do what you are comfortable with. My SIL lost her first baby at 6 weeks. THey decided to start trying again when the dr told them they could (3mos) they tried and werent getting pregnant, i know it was sooooo hard for her, she thought she couldnt have kids. After 6 months of trying they finally got their BFP. She is now 20 weeks and she is still scared, nothing will take that away. But having people you know love you and support you and will be there when you need them is what you need to get through it. You will know when you are ready and dont let anyone pressure you into it because it may make it harder for you. Good luck and when you decide to try again i hope very much that it all goes very well for you.

Buh Byyyyyye Batman, Turkey 50586 posts
Dec 28th '08

You have soo much time to be a mom. I think maybe you should do some soul searching and find your place before you TTC. Having a baby changes every aspect of your life. There's nothing wrong with waiting until you have more to offer your child. Take it from me.

*eom* 35 kids; Washington 8510 posts
Dec 28th '08

im sorry for your loss.
i just lost my baby today. i dont wanna go through this pain anymore so we are gonna wait a while and see why my body wont take the babies.
good luck with everything hun

Jessica::Kylie's mommy Due October 25 (girl); 2 kids; 6 angel babies; Clinton, North Carolina 4551 posts
Dec 28th '08
Quoting RiP My Little Angel ;:
16 kids; la, ca, United States 18 posts
Dec 28th '08
Quoting Jessica::Kylie's mommy:
Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
Dec 28th '08

i'm sorry for your loss

You have plenty of time to be a mom. get a good education, have some fun. live a little and THEN try. when you know you haven't missed something. I think you have far more important things to think about than bringing a child into the world. I'm sure it hurts and you've got alot on your mind but, I think TTC should be the last thing you're thinking of.