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TTC when he doesn't want to have sex WheezeLucy TTC since Nov 2013; 1 child; Dublin, Ireland 178 posts
Apr 24th

What do you do when your TTC and he doesn't want sex.

I'm lucky if I get it once a month if that and with that he doesn't finish. 


I'm nearly at point of going f**k this I'll get a donor I'm not getting younger and I can't keep up with all his lies saying I'll try or rain check.

From now a very fed up fucked off TTC for years woman. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102639 posts
Apr 26th

You’re TTCing, but only have sex once a month and he doesn’t finish? Sounds like he doesn’t want to TTC?? Maybe it’s just me but I’d be thinking as such.. you’ve been TTCing for coming up 7 years?? 

If having a baby was that important to me I would think long and hard here, you said you’re not getting any younger,  why continue wasting years?? For something you might not get? Donor or keep waiting... I know what I’d choose. 

Drew90 Due December 28; 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Hodgdon, ME, United States 7424 posts
Apr 26th

Quoting bia.:
You’re TTCing, but only have sex once a month and he doesn’t finish? Sounds like he doesn’t want to TTC?? Maybe it’s just me but I’d be thinking as such.. you’ve been TTCing for coming up 7 years?? 

If having a baby was that important to me I would think long and hard here, you said you’re not getting any younger,  why continue wasting years?? For something you might not get? Donor or keep waiting... I know what I’d choose. 


I agree. Hard to be TTCing only having sex once month. Doesn't sound like he's on the same page