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How long would you wait for a proposal? Jess081316 3 kids; Spokane Valley, WA, United States 889 posts
Jul 15th

**How long would you wait for a proposal after getting into a committed relationship??**

Hi there. So just a random poll lol. I have been with my bf for a little over 7 years now. 2 kids together, a house...2 dogs...cat. lol. He has known from the beginning how important marriage was to me, and still is. He knows it really hurts me. He knows when we attend family or friends weddings together it tugs on my heart. Proposed to his ex after dating 1 year...but nothing for me yet. Mixed feelings. So wanted to make this poll just to see a little bit of what others thought. 



bia. Due December 26 (boy); 3 kids; ., ., Portugal 102600 posts
Jul 15th

If marriage was something I really wanted, 1-2 years, he knows you want to get married and hasn’t even tried after 7 years and a couple kids..but he proposed to his ex after a year?? Guy seems like a dickward, going from your last post.

Jess081316 3 kids; Spokane Valley, WA, United States 889 posts
Jul 15th

I know. Idk what his deal is. I have heard him say few years ago we fight too much and he doesn't want to end up in a divorce....and I have also heard I don't have the money. But he is SUPER smart and organized with his money. He usually spend a lot on my birthday every year. Last year he spent like $700. This year was my 30th and he took me on a weekend getaway to Santa Cruz. Which I appreciate obviously. He has a great paying job. He can save for a ring if he wanted. I have even told him I don't need a fancy ring. He is scared I guess idk.

Jess081316 3 kids; Spokane Valley, WA, United States 889 posts
Jul 18th

Quoting ✩ Silver:
I’m sorry, it sounds like he doesn’t want to marry you unfortunately. Going off of your last post he doesn’t respect you, either. I think it’s time to stop waiting and move on. There’s plenty of men out there that would be willing to give you everything you want and more. 


I know :( it is hard because we have been together so long and have kids together. I mean what guy is gonna be with me with 3 kids.