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Advice fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4718 posts
May 15th

I have a friend looking for some advice. She has 1ds, no complications or problems. On March 5th she got a bfp. March 14th, she had a mc. On April 8th she got another bfp. On April 12th, she noticed her lines were getting lighter. She mc'ed the next day. She got another bfp tonight and said she isn't getting her hopes up and expects to miscarry this one as well. Does anyone have any experience or insight they can offer? Part of her concern is that her SO's ex-wife had 7 mcs during their marriage and wonders if maybe there's a problem. She said she went for some tests and everything looked good on her part. This is the test she took this evening at 4+ 4 since her last MC. Tia
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tinana+3 TTC since Jan 2019; 3 kids; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 48099 posts
May 16th

It would be so rare to conceive 3 cycles in a row, miscarrying in between. I know “they” say that you’re more fertile after a mc but “they” also say that there’s like a 20-30% chance of conception each cycle. 

She could always ask her partner to see a urologist for semen analysis...

SpidermansMommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Ohio 6864 posts
May 16th

I'd suggest she see her doctor to verify that she did indeed miscarry previously. It's very possible that she had bleeding but did not actually miscarry. She may be further along than she thinks she is.

fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4718 posts
May 16th

Quoting SpidermansMommy:
I'd suggest she see her doctor to verify that she did indeed miscarry previously. It's very possible that she had bleeding but did not actually miscarry. She may be further along than she thinks she is.


She did have her levels checked. It was a 6 when she went in after the second miscarriage. That was my thought too, because she conceived so quickly. But it was confirmed.

fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4718 posts
May 16th

Quoting tinana+3:
It would be so rare to conceive 3 cycles in a row, miscarrying in between. I know “they” say that you’re more fertile after a mc but “they” also say that there’s like a 20-30% chance of conception each cycle. 

She could always ask her partner to see a urologist for semen analysis...


The mc was confirmed. Idk if it was luck.. or what, but she conceived pretty quickly.  

bia. Due December 26; 3 kids; ., ., Portugal 102552 posts
May 16th

Quoting fluffyruffruff:

The mc was confirmed. Idk if it was luck.. or what, but she conceived pretty quickly.  


That’s what happened to me before this pregnancy, positive test had my levels checked, was only 14, few days later started bleeding, had them checked again, 3. I didn’t even have a period before getting pregnant with this baby!