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fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4727 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting MOMMY 9.0:


You keep thinking you know me


I mean... Thats how you come off so....

fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4727 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Oh but I do. 





Oh SNAP!

MOMMY 9.0 TTC since Jan 1997; 6 kids; Minnesota 12447 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Oh but I do. 





But oh you do not! So you think you know me from a post about me trying to figure out what to do with my drug addicted step son whom I've raised for the last almost 13 yrs? That one post asking for advice . 

So you know what hell I've gone thru for that child? You know his mother hasn't tried to support them on any form in 17 years? You know when she moved to our town briefly she snuck the 3 kids into her apt and gave them drugs? Oh there's more. But you know me. 

Seriously I'm not sure why people feel the need to personally attack when another human has an opinion? 

MOMMY 9.0 TTC since Jan 1997; 6 kids; Minnesota 12447 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting fluffyruffruff:

Oh SNAP!


How is this an oh snap? So I asked for advice which makes me a bad person? I'm confused? Obviously I don't care since I haven't deleted any of my posts really. 

This kid is 20 and is still livng off us. Still an addict still  without a job. Tried getting him help he leaves treatment and disappears for a while so we can be literally ill over it for weeks or months .. Wanna offer some help? Or just judge me as you know me so well! 

I mean seriously what would you do? You couldn't hack it in my life so just keep being you jumping on that band wagon and judging people and degrading them cause you know so well what they are dealing with in life and instead of personal attacks maybe just disagree with someone! Explain why you disagree and move on?! 

Nope can't do that. 

MOMMY 9.0 TTC since Jan 1997; 6 kids; Minnesota 12447 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting fluffyruffruff:

I mean... Thats how you come off so....


I came off as you knowing me? I stated my opinion . Never personally attacked anyone and get attacked! 

But i am the one who is told in ignorant and a dumb c**t . Really did I miss something. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102653 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting MOMMY 9.0:

But oh you do not! So you think you know me from a post about me trying to figure out what to do with my drug addicted step son whom I've raised for the last almost 13 yrs? That one post asking for advice . 

So you know what hell I've gone thru for that child? You know his mother hasn't tried to support them on any form in 17 years? You know when she moved to our town briefly she snuck the 3 kids into her apt and gave them drugs? Oh there's more. But you know me. 

Seriously I'm not sure why people feel the need to personally attack when another human has an opinion? 


Oh dear, You tried to pretty much deny he smoke(d) weed, I proved other wise. Tis all.

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102653 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting MOMMY 9.0:

How is this an oh snap? So I asked for advice which makes me a bad person? I'm confused? Obviously I don't care since I haven't deleted any of my posts really. 

This kid is 20 and is still livng off us. Still an addict still  without a job. Tried getting him help he leaves treatment and disappears for a while so we can be literally ill over it for weeks or months .. Wanna offer some help? Or just judge me as you know me so well! 

I mean seriously what would you do? You couldn't hack it in my life so just keep being you jumping on that band wagon and judging people and degrading them cause you know so well what they are dealing with in life and instead of personal attacks maybe just disagree with someone! Explain why you disagree and move on?! 

Nope can't do that. 


You could have done the same Damn thing...but because someone called you out on your BS you wanna act all butt hurt now?

browncrayon07 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dixon, Il, United States 2329 posts
May 4th '17

I ate all my popcorn...anyone have some they are willing to share?? Wink

MOMMY 9.0 TTC since Jan 1997; 6 kids; Minnesota 12447 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

You could have done the same Damn thing...but because someone called you out on your BS you wanna act all butt hurt now?


Actually he's an addict until you live my life .. Move along! And you and the other girl attacked me .. I am not butt hurt you guys called me names when I said she shouldn't go for child support .. Lol 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102653 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting MOMMY 9.0:

Actually he's an addict until you live my life .. Move along! And you and the other girl attacked me .. I am not butt hurt you guys called me names when I said she shouldn't go for child support .. Lol 


Move on......you told us to move on, now do the same. 

fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4727 posts
May 4th '17

Quoting MOMMY 9.0:

Actually he's an addict until you live my life .. Move along! And you and the other girl attacked me .. I am not butt hurt you guys called me names when I said she shouldn't go for child support .. Lol 


You're a joke. Move along.

Some Rad Chick 1 child; Los Angeles, California 1930 posts
May 7th '17

Wow.. this escalated fast. Hahaha!
im still very torn on the issue. I agree; although I would love child support, I should plan to have this baby on my own. Without the support of the dad. Although, child support will be the right thing to do, I can't held the dad to the same standards as myself. He has his own life to live and his own choices. He would have to live with this not I. I hope he can do the right thing, but I can't control that. I will give him the option and let him decide. As for me, I will preservere and fight for my child.