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I just need to vent. marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 5th '17

I just need to get this off my chest.

I don't know what the f**k is going on with my body but I'm about 99% sure it's a miscarriage.   I wake up bleeding (red blood),  get some period-like cramps for a few hours and then it stops for the day.  I wake up and repeat the next morning.   I just want this to be over with,  you know?  It feels like it's just being dragged out.

Meanwhile,  I'm surrounded by people who are just trying to pretend like nothing is happening.  My SO asks me if there's anything he can do but we haven't actually spoken to eachother about whats actually happening to what could have been OUR baby.  I know everyone deals differently but I just feel so alone.  His mom acts like this is f**king nothing and tried to take me to look for a job.  I just want to feel what I need to feel with my FAMILY without feeling like I'm just supposed to move on with life without batting and eyelash at the fact that I'm losing a baby.
 I just feel alone.  I can't even focus on what's happening because everyone else around me is acting like it's not actually happening.


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SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Apr 5th '17

I don't have many words but just know I'm here for you <33 

You're supposed to get an u/s soon, right?

Drew90 Due December 28; 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Hodgdon, ME, United States 7424 posts
Apr 5th '17

I had the same experience with my second one..  I'm so sorry you're dealing with this OP =( everyone grieves differently and you have every right to take your time with this process <3 

fluffyruffruff 5 kids; United States 4727 posts
Apr 5th '17

Tell SO that you need him to comfort you right now. He asked if he could do anything, tell him ehat you need. Im so sorry you are going through this right now. Hugs.

♥Jessie♥ Due June 14; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Idaho 14910 posts
Apr 5th '17

I am so mad that your MIL has been so insensitive. Hugs.

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 5th '17

Thanks everyone.  ❤ BG is always here for me 38

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting ♥Jessie♥:
I am so mad that your MIL has been so insensitive. Hugs.


I know. Very Sad I don't know wtf she was thinking, she always focuses on money and nothing else matters.

SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Apr 5th '17
Quoting ♥Jessie♥:
I am so mad that your MIL has been so insensitive. Hugs.


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Lyla & Maxwell's Mommy 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Wisconsin 1576 posts
Apr 5th '17

I feel like most people don't know how to act with miscarriages.  My family says the most rediculous things or pretends nothing happened too. I try my best to ignore them...  *hugs*  have you been checked by an ob yet??  SCH can have bleeding and baby is ok. 

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Lyla & Maxwell's Mommy:
I feel like most people don't know how to act with miscarriages.  My family says the most rediculous things or pretends nothing happened too. I try my best to ignore them...  *hugs*  have you been checked by an ob yet??  SCH can have bleeding and baby is ok. 


I've been seen by my doctor but they really didn't do/say much.  I've got an ultrasound on the 13th so I guess that's when I'll find out what's happening.  I was thinking of making another appointment with my doctor but I'm not sure she'd say anything I didn't already know.

browncrayon07 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dixon, Il, United States 2329 posts
Apr 5th '17

It's been my experience that a lot of people don't know how to "deal" with a miscarriage. Some people don't think of it as a baby. Some people honestly don't know what to say. I would tell SO you need him to comfort you. Whether it's crying in his arms, talking about it, distracting you, whatever it is. And as for MIL, I can not tell a lie...I probably would have punched her, and then went and got some ice cream.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

Awkward 5 kids; 2 angel babies; St Cloud, MN, United States 4642 posts
Apr 5th '17

So many hugs!

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Apr 5th '17

I'm praying for you and the baby. Hopefully everything is ok. Very Sad

Cat.Woman. 2 kids; Gotham City, PA, United States 9783 posts
Apr 5th '17

I'm so sorry. I'm here if you need someone ❤

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 5th '17

Thank you, girls ♡