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Miss_Felicia 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Pennsylvania 5579 posts
Apr 5th '17

I work Mon-Fri 8:30am-2:30pm, no weekends no holidays no nights. I have 4 kids, 2 older ones in school and 2 younger ones (3y and 10ms) at home. My husband works over nights 7pm-7am, 4 days on- 4 days off... these hours work good for us so only 2 kids need watched, usually only a few days a week (even tho I work 5 days a week). I am a cook at a corporate cafeteria, most of the time I like it. They're pretty flexible, in general, like I can request days off for appts / school stuff and they're ok with it. I worked here while preg last year and they let me work 4 days/week my last 2 months because of dr appts and stuff I was going thru. I need to work and this works best w my husbands schedule, sitters, ect. 

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

 you can see, the OP wasn't wanting to entertain Bia's questions... Bia and her arent friends.. Bia was jumping, from posts to keep her comment about drinking ongoing.  She Jumped into a comment the OP made to me and laughed off sarcastic remarks...  she wasn't chiming in, to make sure the OPs kids are safe... 

honestly, if people believed her kids are in danger... with him not being home, why comment? Because clearly, you're not in favor of the OP having a job or giving actual input about having a part time job schedule....  Fyi, that incident from early February was from when she was home... and this thread turned into that Accident with claims of him being abusive. Accident vs abuse arent the same. If people gave a shit, then sarcasm isn't necessary with responses... some appeared they cared. Bia, did not.. 

 Yes... I went back and forth, about her stirring the pot... and I made my points back in very beginning of this entire thread... 


now Casper, since you're here? Do you have part time job advice?


Good god lady. Let it the f**k go. 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

Good god lady. Let it the f**k go. 


I'm responding, because comments are directed to me. Funny how it can get turned around, because I point stuff out and yet, I'm told to move the f**k along.. tell your girl Bia to step the f**k off, if someone doesn't want to further explain.. they shouldn't have to. 


Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

I'm responding, because comments are directed to me. Funny how it can get turned around, because I point stuff out and yet, I'm told to move the f**k along.. tell your girl Bia to step the f**k off, if someone doesn't want to further explain.. they shouldn't have to. 




Ha bia is not my girl.  As in the words of frozen....Let it go... Let it goooooo.  Ur overly dramatic about all of this with your novel writing self.

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

Ha bia is not my girl.  As in the words of frozen....Let it go... Let it goooooo.  Ur overly dramatic about all of this with your novel writing self.


Well just be entertained, site has been dead.. this is what Some come for.. clearly, the drama.. but please, be ok., if I went into sarcastic remarks about drinking, that's a normal response? 

.casper. 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Neverland, NJ, Christmas Island 2013 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

Ha bia is not my girl.  As in the words of frozen....Let it go... Let it goooooo.  Ur overly dramatic about all of this with your novel writing self.


I know, i can't even be bothered reading that novel lol

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Well just be entertained, site has been dead.. this is what Some come for.. clearly, the drama.. but please, be ok., if I went into sarcastic remarks about drinking, that's a normal response? 


You are so far from being entertaining. You're just annoying at this point. 

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting .casper.:

I know, i can't even be bothered reading that novel lol


For real.  And then to say its entertainmentAngry

.casper. 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Neverland, NJ, Christmas Island 2013 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

For real.  And then to say its entertainmentAngry


Bahahaha Super Happy

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

For real.  And then to say its entertainmentAngry


Please, you're still here.. you know where the unfollow is... 

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Apr 5th '17

So someone being genuinely concerned for her kids' well being and hers.. shouldn't comment?  

.casper. 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Neverland, NJ, Christmas Island 2013 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

 you can see, the OP wasn't wanting to entertain Bia's questions... Bia and her arent friends.. Bia was jumping, from posts to keep her comment about drinking ongoing.  She Jumped into a comment the OP made to me and laughed off sarcastic remarks...  she wasn't chiming in, to make sure the OPs kids are safe... 

honestly, if people believed her kids are in danger... with him not being home, why comment? Because clearly, you're not in favor of the OP having a job or giving actual input about having a part time job schedule....  Fyi, that incident from early February was from when she was home... and this thread turned into that Accident with claims of him being abusive. Accident vs abuse arent the same. If people gave a shit, then sarcasm isn't necessary with responses... some appeared they cared. Bia, did not.. 

 Yes... I went back and forth, about her stirring the pot... and I made my points back in very beginning of this entire thread... 


now Casper, since you're here? Do you have part time job advice?


Nope. I don't intend on getting one. But it sounds like OP needs a hobby, not a job. However, since you're besties irl and you're the only person who knows the ins and outs of her life, you should have just put your opinion and not bothered asking anyone else.
if you want to get a job OP, get one. If you think that's what's best for your family then do it( I haven't read your previous post, so I genuinely know nothing about what anyone else is talking about). If it doesn't work, quit, you've nothing to lose. But it sounds like you want to meet new people and get a hobby. I personally would try that first, and then maybe go the job route if the time apart is working out for you all.

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Please, you're still here.. you know where the unfollow is... 



Please... Maybe i want to see what other people have to say about their part time jobs.. Cos you damn sure aren't the only one commenting still. Its not all about you. 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting .casper.:

Nope. I don't intend on getting one. But it sounds like OP needs a hobby, not a job. However, since you're besties irl and you're the only person who knows the ins and outs of her life, you should have just put your opinion and not bothered asking anyone else.
if you want to get a job OP, get one. If you think that's what's best for your family then do it( I haven't read your previous post, so I genuinely know nothing about what anyone else is talking about). If it doesn't work, quit, you've nothing to lose. But it sounds like you want to meet new people and get a hobby. I personally would try that first, and then maybe go the job route if the time apart is working out for you all.


This point, not  reading any of this... you and Casper came in, on about 80+ responses.. clearly knowing back and forth was going on. You want to make yourself a part of it, cool. Dont chime in about not entertaining drama, when both are bottle feeding it and keeping the drama alive. 

NinjaSquirrel United States 8146 posts
Apr 5th '17

Just playing devils advocate here but Bia wasn't being a b***h in the alcoholic topic either:



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Tossing a baby in the air and dropping him isn't necessarily "abuse" per say but there is definitely an issue. The OP even admitted that "his own mother is clearly in denial that he has a problem".

A drinking problem does not just go away overnight. People were genuinely concerned. And still are.