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Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

Oh i know the feeling all too well. I love being a mom but being a working mom makes me see things a little clearer... If that makes sense.  I have an opportunity to miss my girls and they miss me.  I'm a better mom when i work. 



 I feel ready. I just am nervous about DS2 having enough milk, luckily I exclusively pump. but, still. I think it would make everyone happier all in all.

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:


 I feel ready. I just am nervous about DS2 having enough milk, luckily I exclusively pump. but, still. I think it would make everyone happier all in all.


Go for it! Good luck. 

Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Ohana❤:

Go for it! Good luck. 



TYTYTY! <3 Super Happy

Ohana❤ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nvr, NL, United States 1904 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:


TYTYTY! <3 Super Happy


NpTongue

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Pretty sure, how you're agreeing with your friends who are speaking on your behalf, that you too, can speak for yourself..


and I AM speaking to just you.


They aren't speaking for me...they too, feel the same.  Big difference. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

It wasn't edited. It was implied, he'd watch them. She said, she'd work opposite shifts of when he doesn't work. I get how others' assumed because of not knowing her life.

No matter, If others' want to think the post was edited, the seriousness of what was said, wasn't funny. So when smiley emojis and or lols are being placed (from Bia), with her remarks that's implying stiring shit... If someone's concerned, be concerned... don't laugh about drinking problems and about kids safety...



I didn't laugh at him having a drinking problem or the kids safety...38Shy

Oops.

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

I didn't laugh at him having a drinking problem or the kids safety...38Shy

Oops.


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Because thats an LOL.. moment right? Seriously. Why would you keep going back and forth on the matter, when she wasn't addressing you, about the drinking with your FIRST comment.

She said, thanks for your input.. clearly, she acknowledged, your intial comment with a dry 'stop response'... but then, you made that shot of a comment... and then tried going back and forth with Jessie. She also, did end up coming back and said she felt, the same way that I too, took your comments. clearly due to comments, you have already made and gone back/forth with her on before.  Night Bia.. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:



Because thats an LOL.. moment right? Seriously. Why would you keep going back and forth on the matter, when she wasn't addressing you, about the drinking with your FIRST comment.

She said, thanks for your input.. clearly, she acknowledged, your intial comment with a dry 'stop response'... but then, you made that shot of a comment... and then tried going back and forth with Jessie. She also, did end up coming back and said she felt, the same way that I too, took your comments. clearly due to comments, you have already made and gone back/forth with her on before.  Night Bia.. 


Thank goodness for that.  BYE LUX.

Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Thank goodness for that.  BYE LUX.



but bia, do you work PT?! Evil

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:


but bia, do you work PT?! Evil


Soon! After my hernia repair Angry 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting bia.:

Thank goodness for that.  BYE LUX.


Why so mad? 

Go back and read your responses, you should apologize to her,  instead of being enraged with me for saying something. 

1. You made your initial response, she responded and she didn't care to elaborate on explaining herself. 

2. You interjected on a response, that she made to me to make another ill comment about same ordeal.. like he's abusive to their kids. And again, that's called stirring and trying to get a response. Like she's being forced to go into depth with you and other posters about it.  

3. She still didn't  say anything to you, yet you hop onto another's response and again... go into sarcasm, about how things must change overnight. 

Bia, I actually like you. I don't mind, the feelings aren't mutual. The difference is, the OP is a close friend in real life. So when I see, the post is beginning to turn into something that none of you know ins and outs about, I said something. Nobody else was digging. They made one response and or agreed with your intial comment. If you truly cared, your other two comments and or going back with others' about this Op possible circumstances, was not necessary.    The past bottle and laundry comments, I held my tongue because that was you being super petty, others' actually spoke up for this OP.. you don't lay into people, like you do with me. That's fine. When you want to swing and dig into others' relationships on a asking about jobs post, and or have a sarcastic tone, damn right someone should say something. 


Oh Why Not 2 kids; Hallandale beach, Fl, United States 8672 posts
Apr 5th '17

I work thurs & Friday night 630pm-1030pm then every Saturday and Sunday full shifts. It's okay but me and dh never get any days off together unless one of us calls out sick or requests a day off. So yeah ds never has us both at the same time. I don't really like it, it's harsh on our relationship at times and its stressful because I have a million things to do during the week involving our son because he's special needs so I never have a break. After I have this baby in August I might take a year off if our finances are still good. I cashier by the way and I absolutely HATE it lol I work solely for the extra cash. My job doesn't give me a social life or adult interaction though. I deal with shitty attitudes from customers then I come home and deal with my stressful life so I would rather just be a stay at home mom.


.casper. 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Neverland, NJ, Christmas Island 2013 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Why so mad? 

Go back and read your responses, you should apologize to her,  instead of being enraged with me for saying something. 

1. You made your initial response, she responded and she didn't care to elaborate on explaining herself. 

2. You interjected on a response, that she made to me to make another ill comment about same ordeal.. like he's abusive to their kids. And again, that's called stirring and trying to get a response. Like she's being forced to go into depth with you and other posters about it.  

3. She still didn't  say anything to you, yet you hop onto another's response and again... go into sarcasm, about how things must change overnight. 

Bia, I actually like you. I don't mind, the feelings aren't mutual. The difference is, the OP is a close friend in real life. So when I see, the post is beginning to turn into something that none of you know ins and outs about, I said something. Nobody else was digging. They made one response and or agreed with your intial comment. If you truly cared, your other two comments and or going back with others' about this Op possible circumstances, was not necessary.    The past bottle and laundry comments, I held my tongue because that was you being super petty, others' actually spoke up for this OP.. you don't lay into people, like you do with me. That's fine. When you want to swing and dig into others' relationships on a asking about jobs post, and or have a sarcastic tone, damn right someone should say something. 




Geez, you really like to go off on one don't you lol...she wasn't even the only person saying it, so why you only going off on one at her...

NinjaSquirrel United States 8146 posts
Apr 5th '17

OP,  go do yoga or sign up for a class , something you've always wanted to learn. *find a "hobby" that takes place outside of the home?


Community service? There's tons of things you could do for yourself to get yourself out of the house for a couple hours.

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 5th '17

Quoting .casper.:

Geez, you really like to go off on one don't you lol...she wasn't even the only person saying it, so why you only going off on one at her...


 you can see, the OP wasn't wanting to entertain Bia's questions... Bia and her arent friends.. Bia was jumping, from posts to keep her comment about drinking ongoing.  She Jumped into a comment the OP made to me and laughed off sarcastic remarks...  she wasn't chiming in, to make sure the OPs kids are safe... 

honestly, if people believed her kids are in danger... with him not being home, why comment? Because clearly, you're not in favor of the OP having a job or giving actual input about having a part time job schedule....  Fyi, that incident from early February was from when she was home... and this thread turned into that Accident with claims of him being abusive. Accident vs abuse arent the same. If people gave a shit, then sarcasm isn't necessary with responses... some appeared they cared. Bia, did not.. 

 Yes... I went back and forth, about her stirring the pot... and I made my points back in very beginning of this entire thread... 


now Casper, since you're here? Do you have part time job advice?