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Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:


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I guess he got better over night, eh? Cause it works like that.  Duh silly us! 



Well, if you'd recall the post all this came from.... I had questioned if I should/shouldn't leave our kids home with him while I went out for the evening, unsure if he'd come home wanting to drink. That evening, he chose not to drink and take care of the kids. He has changed, in regards to not drinking every opportunity he gets. He works ALOT, on call around the clock and now that he's finally catching some time off, I thought it would give me an actual opportunity here. Even so, if I wanted to work FULL Time, I have family who would help me do so. We don't NEED the money, but I NEED some time (with a purpose) away.

I really shouldn't have to sit here and explain my whole life story. Excuse me for wanting other's perspective on having a job outside the home. Truly none of this was/is necessary.

so glad there's so much support here. Shy

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:


Well, if you'd recall the post all this came from.... I had questioned if I should/shouldn't leave our kids home with him while I went out for the evening, unsure if he'd come home wanting to drink. That evening, he chose not to drink and take care of the kids. He has changed, in regards to not drinking every opportunity he gets. He works ALOT, on call around the clock and now that he's finally catching some time off, I thought it would give me an actual opportunity here. Even so, if I wanted to work FULL Time, I have family who would help me do so. We don't NEED the money, but I NEED some time (with a purpose) away.

I really shouldn't have to sit here and explain my whole life story. Excuse me for wanting other's perspective on having a job outside the home. Truly none of this was/is necessary.

so glad there's so much support here. Shy


Well I'm glad he's stopped drinking, truly. Now if your old pal would have left it for you to tell, none of this would have happened. But once again Lux does it. 

Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Well I'm glad he's stopped drinking, truly. Now if your old pal would have left it for you to tell, none of this would have happened. But once again Lux does it. 


I shouldn't have to chime in. Your input was ill-sourced, almost spiteful.  I wouldn't be considering taking on more than I could chew, or put them in harm's way. She knows me, IRL. I'm sure that's just the way she took it also.

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Well I'm glad he's stopped drinking, truly. Now if your old pal would have left it for you to tell, none of this would have happened. But once again Lux does it. 


But once again, you made remarks twice on behalf of his drinking soooooo if you can kindly, take your own advice and shut your own trap, wait for the OP to chime it herself .. but once again..... Bia for you..

The Original Bob 4 kids; 4 angel babies; <3, CA, United States 38477 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:

I shouldn't have to chime in. Your input was ill-sourced, almost spiteful.  I wouldn't be considering taking on more than I could chew, or put them in harm's way. She knows me, IRL. I'm sure that's just the way she took it also.


I really don't think Bia was trying to be spiteful, she was just concerned. I mean given the facts you posted about your SO being abusive to the kids when he drinks and then next you post about leaving them alone with him to possibly get a PT job. If that other member knows you IRL or not, we don't. We can only go by what you post. 

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:

I really don't think Bia was trying to be spiteful, she was just concerned. I mean given the facts you posted about your SO being abusive to the kids when he drinks and then next you post about leaving them alone with him to possibly get a PT job. If that other member knows you IRL or not, we don't. We can only go by what you post. 


I agree with this. 

Britny 4 kids; 2 angel babies; ,, ,, United States 20889 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:

I really don't think Bia was trying to be spiteful, she was just concerned. I mean given the facts you posted about your SO being abusive to the kids when he drinks and then next you post about leaving them alone with him to possibly get a PT job. If that other member knows you IRL or not, we don't. We can only go by what you post. 


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bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

But once again, you made remarks twice on behalf of his drinking soooooo if you can kindly, take your own advice and shut your own trap, wait for the OP to chime it herself .. but once again..... Bia for you..


Take your own advice Lux! 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Have Heart:

I shouldn't have to chime in. Your input was ill-sourced, almost spiteful.  I wouldn't be considering taking on more than I could chew, or put them in harm's way. She knows me, IRL. I'm sure that's just the way she took it also.


Ill-sourced? Spiteful? Unknown38 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:

I really don't think Bia was trying to be spiteful, she was just concerned. I mean given the facts you posted about your SO being abusive to the kids when he drinks and then next you post about leaving them alone with him to possibly get a PT job. If that other member knows you IRL or not, we don't. We can only go by what you post. 


Yeep.  Goodness. 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Take your own advice Lux! 


Girl, I was repeating what you said to the OP about me.. smh... sooo was saying, take YOUR own advice... smh. 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:

Ill-sourced? Spiteful? Unknown38 


Unknown Because of how you've gone back and forth with this OP, over other things as well. So yes.. you're wishy washy with this OP. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Girl, I was repeating what you said to the OP about me.. smh... sooo was saying, take YOUR own advice... smh. 


Girl, and I was telling you, take your own advice. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102643 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting Royal_Lux:

Unknown Because of how you've gone back and forth with this OP, over other things as well. So yes.. you're wishy washy with this OP. 



OK Lux, Sarah can answer for herself, she doesn't need you to. 

Royal_Lux United States 2661 posts
Apr 4th '17

Quoting bia.:


OK Lux, Sarah can answer for herself, she doesn't need you to. 


Pretty sure, how you're agreeing with your friends who are speaking on your behalf, that you too, can speak for yourself..


and I AM speaking to just you.