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What are your thoughts/opinions?? browncrayon07 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dixon, Il, United States 2329 posts
Dec 1st '16

On a guy hitting a woman because she hit him?? Whether she "just" slapped him, or if she is waylaying on him??



My opinion: It's never ok to hit ANYONE, man or woman. If a woman is beating on my son he has every right to retain her. I.E. grab her wrists, bear hug her, hold her on the ground or whatever, but never ever hit back. Now if she is psycho and chasing him with a knife or something he better trip her something.

Everyone I have had this debate with says if she is big enough to hit like a man, she is big enough to be hit like a man. To me that's like saying 2 wrongs make a right.




What are your opinions/thoughts??

MrsJava<3 5 kids; Couch, PA, United States 1404 posts
Dec 1st '16

Quoting browncrayon07:
On a guy hitting a woman because she hit him?? Whether she "just" slapped him, or if she is waylaying on him??
My opinion: It's never ok to hit ANYONE, man or woman. If a woman is beating on my son he has every right to retain her. I.E. grab her wrists, bear hug her, hold her on the ground or whatever, but never ever hit back. Now if she is psycho and chasing him with a knife or something he better trip her something.

Everyone I have had this debate with says if she is big enough to hit like a man, she is big enough to be hit like a man. To me that's like saying 2 wrongs make a right.




What are your opinions/thoughts??


I agree completely with you.

SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Dec 1st '16

Nope, not okay ever in my book. I don't think it's always fair for a woman to hit either but sometimes it's freakin' called for! 

αͷtͷmnαƪ Hogwarts, .., United Kingdom 77414 posts
Dec 1st '16

I don't like the double standard. If it's not okay for a man to hit a woman then it shouldn't be okay for a woman to hit a man unless either situation is one that calls for it like self-defense.

αͷtͷmnαƪ Hogwarts, .., United Kingdom 77414 posts
Dec 1st '16

Quoting SomeMommy:
Nope, not okay ever in my book. I don't think it's always fair for a woman to hit either but sometimes it's freakin' called for! 



Oh? 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102639 posts
Dec 1st '16

Quoting ᗋuτumnαl:


Oh? 



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[[Breezy]] Due August 1; 2 kids; Savannah, Georgia 16956 posts
Dec 1st '16

Restraint should be the first defense. If that fails and actual violent physical self-defense is called for, well then...

MrsKW 3 kids; United States 4579 posts
Dec 1st '16

Quoting ᗋuτumnαl:
I don't like the double standard. If it's not okay for a man to hit a woman then it shouldn't be okay for a woman to hit a man unless either situation is one that calls for it like self-defense.


Agreed. If some crazy lady was beating on my son i would hope he'd knocked her out. Some women are downright phsyco and need to be put in their place 

ChavieChavo 2 kids; Western, PA, United States 3597 posts
Dec 1st '16

If you hit someone, expect to be hit back . Doesn't matter if you're male or female to me . 2 wrongs don't make a right but I hate when women think they can beat on a man but when he hits back she's quick to call the cops or play victim. Restraint sounds good and all but if you catch someone off guard their reaction without thinking might be a punch. keep your hands to yourself.

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102639 posts
Dec 2nd '16

Quoting ChavieChavo:
If you hit someone, expect to be hit back . Doesn't matter if you're male or female to me . 2 wrongs don't make a right but I hate when women think they can beat on a man but when he hits back she's quick to call the cops or play victim. Restraint sounds good and all but if you catch someone off guard their reaction without thinking might be a punch. keep your hands to yourself.


I agree with this. Embarassed

Britny Due January 13; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 20883 posts
Dec 2nd '16

There's a reason for the so called double standard.
it is scientifically proven that men have far more upper body strength than women.
therefore I don't think it is ever ok for a man to strike a woman . 

that being said as far as cops are concerned there is no difference .  if a woman hits a man she goes to jail too for assault.

I do however believe there would be cases that it were ok
example:
a woman is running off with one of my kids c**t punt that b**** for all I care man or not

browncrayon07 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dixon, Il, United States 2329 posts
Dec 2nd '16

Quoting ChavieChavo:
If you hit someone, expect to be hit back . Doesn't matter if you're male or female to me . 2 wrongs don't make a right but I hate when women think they can beat on a man but when he hits back she's quick to call the cops or play victim. Restraint sounds good and all but if you catch someone off guard their reaction without thinking might be a punch. keep your hands to yourself.


Very good point!

We ARE the Crystal gems 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Beach city, CA, United States 17882 posts
Dec 2nd '16

It's not ok either way. Nobody should put their hands on each other. Yeah a man may be stronger but that doesn't give the woman a right to abuse him. Women get arrested for domestic violence just as much because you know, no matter the sex you can't be putting your hands on someone