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Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting SomeMommy:
I am so beyond thankful for my kids too. After things happened, I didn't think I would have kids either. When I got pregnant with my oldest, I was diagnosed with precancerous cervical cells. They cleared up, I got pregnant with twins shockingly and after them, my body broke down completely. I have stage 4 endometriosis and cysts all over in there. I mean, 8 years and plenty of that time we were unprotected, I just was beginning to accept that another baby wasn't in our books and I was thinking of how much more thankful for my girls I was because they came before this mess. And now, idk, I still have a hard time believing it.


my friend had been unprotected with her husband for 10 years then BAM, they had a baby. He's about to be one. So, miracles happen. Don't give up.


Have your cells been normal recently? :( my sister had a bout with cervical cancer but she is doing great i hear and just had a 3rd girl. im hoping you have a very healthy and easy 9 months.

SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

Hug. some choices we make really hurt us. i felt the same after i gave up my first son for adoption. took me 7 years to actually come to terms with it. a loss is a loss even if its our choice. your baby knows you love them <3


Thank you. Hugs to you too. I know that was an hard decision to come to as well. I absolutely will always have a special place in my heart for that baby. It is half the reason I am the mom I am today.

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting SomeMommy:

Thank you. Hugs to you too. I know that was an hard decision to come to as well. I absolutely will always have a special place in my heart for that baby. It is half the reason I am the mom I am today.


Our choices define us and make us who we are. :) I dont think id be who i am if i didnt give him up. i was a bit worried how id feel if my baby was a boy but i finally came to terms with it recently and feel much better. i always felt if i had another son then hed feel like a replacement for the 1st. but its just not like that

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting bloopbloop♥:
I feel more nervous about this visit with my dr and I don't know why. Hopefully it's the last for now. 


Hug. drs suck

SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

Our choices define us and make us who we are. :) I dont think id be who i am if i didnt give him up. i was a bit worried how id feel if my baby was a boy but i finally came to terms with it recently and feel much better. i always felt if i had another son then hed feel like a replacement for the 1st. but its just not like that


So true. 

I always felt like that maybe was my boy I wanted so bad but if I hadn't made that choice, there's no way I'd have my kids I do today. No way. 

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting SomeMommy:

So true. 

I always felt like that maybe was my boy I wanted so bad but if I hadn't made that choice, there's no way I'd have my kids I do today. No way. 


Yeah id def be stuck in that horrible situation with my family if i kept him. it wouldnt have been a good life. 

bloopbloop♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 14727 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

Sry for all my errors. my DD keeps changing my keyboard and its really getting me down lol. half the time i dont notice anymore. im sure she will be a great big sis but im sure it wont be easy for a while. i swear i heard little footsteps running around her room at 4am but then she went back to bed lol. midnight energy i guess hahaha. least shes been pretty good with grandma. 


Lol it's okay don't worry about it. I think my son will have a hard time he's super spoiled. He's the first grandkid so he has tons of attention I'm sure it won't change but he will feel it. Hahaha omg at 4 am! LOL 

bloopbloop♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 14727 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

Hug. drs suck


Blah I spent like 2 hours there only to be seen for 5 min and was told I should wait 6 months to ttc. :( 

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting bloopbloop♥:

Blah I spent like 2 hours there only to be seen for 5 min and was told I should wait 6 months to ttc. :( 


6 months seems a bit excessive. did they give any reason for this? 

bloopbloop♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 14727 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

6 months seems a bit excessive. did they give any reason for this? 


It does. He didn't he basically walked out while saying 6 months. He's like to see me again next week but I don't know 

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting bloopbloop♥:

It does. He didn't he basically walked out while saying 6 months. He's like to see me again next week but I don't know 


Personally i would seek a second opinion

bloopbloop♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 14727 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:

Personally i would seek a second opinion


I am. SO right away said we can get a second opinion. It's hard looking for Drs. 

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting bloopbloop♥:

I am. SO right away said we can get a second opinion. It's hard looking for Drs. 

im so with you there

bloopbloop♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 14727 posts
Nov 10th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:
im so with you there


It sucks I google Drs to see their ratings but sometimes our personality doesn't match. 

SomeMommy 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 74008 posts
Nov 11th '16

Quoting bloopbloop♥:

I am. SO right away said we can get a second opinion. It's hard looking for Drs. 


That's frustrating as hell. Yes, it is! I have had a terrible time with doctors. I finally found an OB I love and been with her for about 7 yrs. It makes ALL the difference in how you feel. I hope you find a good one soon. Get online and read reviews, that's my best advice.