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His first birthday is tomorrow. Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Oct 14th '16

It should be a time of joy. Cake smashing, presents, laughter,  and smiles. My sister should be holding him close and playing with him. He should be walking now and playing with his cousins. Balloons and decorations of fire trucks because I know that's what my sister would have picked. 

I would be loving on him. My first biological nephew. My first time being a real aunt. I would have spoiled him as would have the rest of the family. I would have been the one to babysit and sing him sweet songs to put him to sleep. So would have my sister.  So would his dad. 

I hate it that my sister had to miss out on so much. And she will continue to miss out on so much. I don't know what to do to comfort her tomorrow.  She would rather be alone and that's fine. I still want to celebrate his life. We all miss him and love him so much. 

Please keep her in your thoughts this weekend.  And the rest of us too please. 

*BrittNicole* Due April 11; TTC since Jul 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ohio 4373 posts
Oct 14th '16

I'm so sorry for your family's loss!

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Oct 14th '16

I'm sorry Very Sad

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102656 posts
Oct 14th '16

I'm sorry, again! How is your sister doing?

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Oct 14th '16

Quoting bia.:
I'm sorry, again! How is your sister doing?


She was in a car accident yesterday (crazy, right?) and is a little sore. She moved back in with my cousin, so I haven't heard from her today. She was in good spirits yesterday when they got back from the hospital,  but she is a private griever. 

I talked about having a small memorial for him, but she got mad about it. Very Sad

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Oct 14th '16

Double post 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102656 posts
Oct 14th '16

Quoting Mαяcєℓιηє:

She was in a car accident yesterday (crazy, right?) and is a little sore. She moved back in with my cousin, so I haven't heard from her today. She was in good spirits yesterday when they got back from the hospital,  but she is a private griever. 

I talked about having a small memorial for him, but she got mad about it. Very Sad



Oh wow, as if she hasn't been through enough. :( 

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Oct 14th '16

Quoting bia.:


Oh wow, as if she hasn't been through enough. :( 


I know. Very Sad

tinana+3 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 48329 posts
Oct 15th '16

I'm so sorry Very Sad

Thinking of you and your family!