Having a lot of thoughts about it animaLibera_ Due May 8; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 7987 posts
Sep 18th '16

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I do not want to be pregnant but I know I will mourn this loss if I have an abortion please give some support. I'm 7 weeks I found out a little over a week ago and wanted to be happy but my situation with the father does not seem to be getting better even though he wants me to keep it. I feel like I will miss my window and then regret not having it done because I will end up doing everything myself like I am with my child who will be 6 when this baby is born. I may be experiencing ptsd  episode from my first pregnancy because I truly did not want to have it but I was under 18 and let myself be controlled by my parents so I ended up having her and I think my biggest worry is how I am glad to have her even though I did not want to be pregnant with her either

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Cat.Woman. 2 kids; Gotham City, PA, United States 9783 posts
Sep 18th '16

You need to do what is best for you and your child that you currently have.
Regardless of what you decide, you should look into some therapy. Good luck.

Emma and Chloe's Momma Due February 24 (boy); 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Plainfield, IN, United States 12896 posts
Sep 18th '16

I know it's a very tough situation to be in. This current pregnancy I am not even on speaking terms with the father. He kicked me out on the streets homeless at around 6 weeks. Even though I knew it was the best choice for the situation it wasn't the best choice for me. You can always better yourself. I asked on here how it was dealing with the emotional aftermath and I had someone tell me the emotional aftermath is tolerable as long as you've made the right decision. In my heart I knew it wasn't right. I've never had PPD but I've had depression and it's very hard especially when your a parent. I've had many years of therapy to help myself manage. Stress, anxiety, etc can all have harmful effects on the baby. I know it's a lot to think about but take some time to yourself if needed and you will know what's best. Best of luck with whatever you choose.

✨Kati✨ Due May 20; 1 child; Memphis, TN, United States 3268 posts
Sep 19th '16

I'm sorry I hope you do what's best for you though. ❤️