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Gone. ~*~Cassi~*~ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Bar Harbor, ME, United States 1560 posts
Aug 26th '16

Thanks ladies. 


Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Aug 26th '16

I just want to say. I am so sorry your friend and you are going through this pain. No mommy should lose a baby. :( I think the best thing you can do is just be supportive. If she doesnt want the baby items. I'd take them. You dont even have to use them. Maybe keep some back for her incase she wants items from her little girl back later. Or you can turn some of the clothes into a memory bear for her. Dont feel guilty though. Its not your fault that this happened and its so tragic. All you can do is comfort her the best way you can and be there for her incase she wants to talk. She might enjoy a cuddle from your baby when she is born. You never know. Just try and stay open and let her know that she always has someone to talk too. 

On the positive side. I am so happy to hear that her little angel went on to save two babies. Thats a miracle and she lives on through them.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 26th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:
I just want to say. I am so sorry your friend and you are going through this pain. No mommy should lose a baby. :( I think the best thing you can do is just be supportive. If she doesnt want the baby items. I'd take them. You dont even have to use them. Maybe keep some back for her incase she wants items from her little girl back later. Or you can turn some of the clothes into a memory bear for her. Dont feel guilty though. Its not your fault that this happened and its so tragic. All you can do is comfort her the best way you can and be there for her incase she wants to talk. She might enjoy a cuddle from your baby when she is born. You never know. Just try and stay open and let her know that she always has someone to talk too. 

On the positive side. I am so happy to hear that her little angel went on to save two babies. Thats a miracle and she lives on through them.


Exclamation So sad :(

dopechickdani. TTC since Aug 2016; 1 child; California 29413 posts
Aug 26th '16

I have to be honest, if I had just lost a full term baby the last thing I would want to see is a pregnant woman.  What a shitty situation.  That's just so hard I cant imagine.  I'm so sorry you're going through that.  Just makes you realize how minuscule the small things we worry about are in comparison to the things some people are going through.  My thoughts are with her and her family. 

~*~Cassi~*~ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Bar Harbor, ME, United States 1560 posts
Aug 26th '16

Quoting ♥dopechickdani.:
I have to be honest, if I had just lost a full term baby the last thing I would want to see is a pregnant woman.  What a shitty situation.  I'm so sorry you're going through that.  Just makes you realize how minuscule the small things we worry about are in comparison to the things some people are going through.  My thoughts are with her and her family. 


That's how I would feel as well but she has insisted that she does want to see me and give me some things once shes home and settled. I guess everyone greaves and handles things differently but I still just feel so awful about it. 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 26th '16

Quoting ♥dopechickdani.:
I have to be honest, if I had just lost a full term baby the last thing I would want to see is a pregnant woman.  What a shitty situation.  That's just so hard I cant imagine.  I'm so sorry you're going through that.  Just makes you realize how minuscule the small things we worry about are in comparison to the things some people are going through.  My thoughts are with her and her family. 



Exclamation I didn't even want around people when I lost mine at 7 weeks :( I couldn't imagine 39 weeks. I stopped Facebook for 6 months and didn't want to know who was pregnant. The people I knew in real life, I didn't want to know about it.

dopechickdani. TTC since Aug 2016; 1 child; California 29413 posts
Aug 26th '16

Quoting ~*~Cassi~*~:

That's how I would feel as well but she has insisted that she does want to see me and give me some things once shes home and settled. I guess everyone greaves and handles things differently but I still just feel so awful about it. 


I would just keep in contact with her for sure and wait for her to invite you over.  god what a shitty situation my heart hurts,

Red~Origami 2 kids; United States 5283 posts
Aug 26th '16

P.s . THe last thing shes going to want to do is cook. Maybe you could bring over  alot of casseroles or meals she can just heat up for herself and her family so she can take the time she needs to grieve.

~*~Cassi~*~ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Bar Harbor, ME, United States 1560 posts
Aug 26th '16

Quoting Rock_Candy:
P.s . THe last thing shes going to want to do is cook. Maybe you could bring over  alot of casseroles or meals she can just heat up for herself and her family so she can take the time she needs to grieve.


That's a great idea!