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So... Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

SO has a cousin that is now suffering her third loss. My heart is breaking for her so bad :( the only one that was supposed to know she was pregnant was her mom. Well her mom told my mil and mil told me. I want to to try to comfort her so bad. I can't though, because no one else was supposed to know. How unfair for her :( she deserves a second baby she is longing for so badly. I just wish I could reach out to her. I can't, because it's not my place. I always wished someone in my family would've reached out to me during mine. I know everyone is different and I'll leave it be. I just feel so awful for her.

Austs_Momma Due June 30; 1 child; 1 angel baby; CD, NY, United States 3814 posts
Aug 14th '16

Well, her moms an ass... 

:-( 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Quoting Rose823:
Well, her moms an ass... 

:-( 



I know :( I feel so bad for her :(

Austs_Momma Due June 30; 1 child; 1 angel baby; CD, NY, United States 3814 posts
Aug 14th '16

Quoting Jenn+4❤️:

I know :( I feel so bad for her :(


Maybe make an excuse to stop by and just check on her? Or is she the type that doesn't like the attention? 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Quoting Rose823:

Maybe make an excuse to stop by and just check on her? Or is she the type that doesn't like the attention? 


I'm not sure really. Her first two losses I didn't know how to be there for her, because I had never went through it. I didn't know what to say to her. I just wish she would get her healthy full 9 months of pregnancy again. She's a great mom,she deserves it.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Thanks girl! I'll talk to my husband and see what he thinks. :) he practically lived over at her mom and dads with her.

Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Aug 14th '16

i'd be tempted to spill the beans that i knew.... having someone to talk to may be worth her being mad at her mom for .5 seconds.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Quoting Bentley Calls Me Mom<3:
i'd be tempted to spill the beans that i knew.... having someone to talk to may be worth her being mad at her mom for .5 seconds.


Thanks girl. I'll explain to my husband how I felt and see what he says first.

......................... Colorado Springs, CO, United States 14632 posts
Aug 14th '16

Maybe just ask her how she's been and talk to her and she might actually tell you. I know personally, it was so much easier for me to have support and to talk to other women that knew how I felt. 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Quoting Nikki ♥15weeks:
Maybe just ask her how she's been and talk to her and she might actually tell you. I know personally, it was so much easier for me to have support and to talk to other women that knew how I felt. 


Thanks Nikki. I think I will, and she's knows I've been through it too so if she feels like bringing up she can.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

Sent her this. That way if she wants to talk she can and if not that's alright too. ee249cd50654572c261b1c83a72b73b7.jpeg