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LOSS at 20weeks DeidreLC Due October 24 (boy); 1 child; 2 angel babies; Spotsylvania, Virginia 1104 posts
Aug 14th '16

Felt her move the night before my routine 20week check up. The mid pregnancy ultrasound the week before looked great.
Nurse taking my bp and everything asked if I had been feeling her move, etc. I said yeah, just the night before. She couldn't find the heat beat. Incomes my dr, to confirm the same thing. She takes me into the ultrasound room and confirms it, no heartbeat, no fetal movement. Sent to L&D for a confirmation bedside ultrasound. Confirmed around 1pm. Induction began 3pm. I gave birth to my beautiful 20w1d Seraphina Asling around 1015 the following morning. Sent home around 6 hours later. I pick her up from the hospital myself and take her to the funeral home to be cremated.


I'm beside myself over here and I feel bad for thinking almost 24/7, why do people on drugs have perfectly health babies and this happens to me. People are having beautiful babies and I'm stuck wit
h a bag of Ash. How in the he'll does this get better? 


Edit: Gave birth July 30th.

~*~Cassi~*~ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Bar Harbor, ME, United States 1560 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so sorry for your loss Very Sad

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so sorry for your loss :( 

Frankie goes to Hollywood Due June 30; 1 child; United Kingdom 824 posts
Aug 14th '16

So sorry for your loss x

blueee 1 child; 1 angel baby; houston, mi, United States 276 posts
Aug 14th '16

Did they find out what caused it? Sorry for your loss btw

Austs_Momma Due June 30; 1 child; 1 angel baby; CD, NY, United States 3814 posts
Aug 14th '16

Very sorry for your loss :-( 

tinana+3 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 48329 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so sorry.... Very SadVery Sad

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm sorry Very Sad

Awkward 5 kids; 2 angel babies; St Cloud, MN, United States 4642 posts
Aug 14th '16

I am so sorry

Have Heart 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Western, NY, United States 9013 posts
Aug 14th '16

hugs momma<33

MrsKnowling 4 kids; 1 angel baby; United States 682 posts
Aug 14th '16

So sorry for your loss!!! I literally can't even think about how hard that is! 

Bunni♥+4 4 kids; 5 angel babies; ., IL, United States 4196 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so sorry for your loss! I delivered my daughter at 18 weeks. It take times to heal and lots of support. I'm sorry you have to know this pain Very Sad 

Twin's2017 Due January 23 (twins); 1 child; United States 6 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so sorry for ur loss my god be with u and ur family 

WheezeLucy TTC since Nov 2013; 1 child; Dublin, Ireland 182 posts
Aug 14th '16

Hugs girl 
very sorry to hear about your princess 

goshfeckingdarnit TTC since Nov 2015; 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 3898 posts
Aug 14th '16

I'm so so sorry for your loss momma.