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Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting ¡VinHaute!:
An alternate view if you will.. People tend to want to help in sometimes un-helpable situations. Just think, at least these people care enough about you to check on you and to offer what they can. You're obviously loved when people ask these kinds of questions, however annoying they are. I don't think anyone is telling you to get over it. I think in most cases, people's hearts are in the right place.


Where I get where you are coming from. I know there is a few of these people, I know them quite well. They do feel I should be over it already. I know you mean well. I just know them quite well. They can't stand feeling helpless and they want me to be okay so they can feel okay. They do love me you are right. I'm just angry right now. I know they mean well too. Things will be better soon, just right now they aren't. Believe me, I'm trying to be strong for everyone else, and I don't let them know my feelings. I sure don't tell them what my insides are screaming either. If they ask if there is anything they can do. I tell them no. If they ask if I'm okay. I tell them yes. I jus needed to vent my feelings away for a moment. I didn't feel like keeping them in today.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting *BrittNicole*:

I'm so sorry Hun... I'm still grieving my baby too and it's been a couple months now... Still feels fresh... Hugs!


Hugs girl! I pray you get your rainbow soon!!

Britny Due August 10 (girl); 4 kids; 2 angel babies; ,, ,, United States 20895 posts
Jul 10th '16

I wish I could give you a hug right now.

I had a hard time knowin how to be there for my sister during her miscarriage.  I didn't know the right things to say and everything I said seemed to upset her.

Watching the pain women go through with loss has always varied person to person and no one should feel they are on a time schedule of mourning. Each human being mourns a different way.

I pray my angel baby is up there playing with yours and I just have so much hope for you in the future to get your rainbow.

Hugs 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting 0_o:
I wish I could give you a hug right now.

I had a hard time knowin how to be there for my sister during her miscarriage.  I didn't know the right things to say and everything I said seemed to upset her.

Watching the pain women go through with loss has always varied person to person and no one should feel they are on a time schedule of mourning. Each human being mourns a different way.

I pray my angel baby is up there playing with yours and I just have so much hope for you in the future to get your rainbow.

Hugs 


Thank you so much girl! Many many hugs.

It's so hard to know what to say definitely. Everyone is different with their mourning and you truly don't know what to say. I never knew what to say when my friends had miscarriages. I just felt awful and a loss for words. At least you were there for her that is what matters even though she was angry at the time she knows you love her. I didn't know how to talk to my baby sister about my first miscarriage. She wanted to so bad and I just couldn't. I appreciated her being there for me though. 

Our babies are definitely up there playing together!
Many many hugs!

Little boy hurry up and come! I want to see your handsome pictures! 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting ♔ BαtMαɳ:
So many hugs to you, love ❤️


Thank girl! Many hugs to you! 

MamaShu+2.5 Due January 8; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Middle of nowhere, NC, United States 937 posts
Jul 10th '16

Hugging you. <3 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting MamaShu+2:
Hugging you. <3 


Thanks girl! Many many hugs! So excited for your rainbow!