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My heart is broke.. Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

I know that's all you lovely ladies want to hear is my woe is me vent. 

My my heart is broke my whole inside is like broken. This second miscarriage is really taking a toll on me, both physically and mentally. I just had so much faith that a second miscarriage wasn't going to happen again. I know it's only been five days and it will get better in time. It's just another jab at my soul. People ask me is there anything we can do? I just want to say, "do you have some kind of magic to make my baby be alive, growing and healthy"? Then they ask are you okay? "Why sure, I feel like a million bucks. I'm over it as soon as you think I should be". I could say so much more, but I know it's pointless. 

NikkiLeAnne 4 kids; Illinois 3589 posts
Jul 10th '16

I'm so sorry :( 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting Nikki+2.5<3:
I'm so sorry :( 


Thanks girl.

Team❤Pink 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Maryland 4721 posts
Jul 10th '16

You just have to be selfish for a bit. Take care of yourself. Treat yourself to your favorite meal, watch a funny movie, take a nice long shower. I'm not saying these things will take your pain away because they won't but you got to be kind to yourself right now. It really does help. I am naturally an introvert. I need my quiet time on a regular basis even when not going through a tough patch. I needed it so much more while going through my two recent losses. When I came home from my D&C's, I spent the entire afternoon/evening upstairs in bed. DH went out and got me my favorite take out, I ordered a couple movies off on demand and DH took my girls out for the day and I just laid there and cried, ate & watched TV. I know it doesn't feel like it now but the pain gets easier. You just find a way to deal with it while continuing to live your life. Hugs to you! 

doras Slovenia 263 posts
Jul 10th '16

Sorry. 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting Complete with 2.5!:
You just have to be selfish for a bit. Take care of yourself. Treat yourself to your favorite meal, watch a funny movie, take a nice long shower. I'm not saying these things will take your pain away because they won't but you got to be kind to yourself right now. It really does help. I am naturally an introvert. I need my quiet time on a regular basis even when not going through a tough patch. I needed it so much more while going through my two recent losses. When I came home from my D&C's, I spent the entire afternoon/evening upstairs in bed. DH went out and got me my favorite take out, I ordered a couple movies off on demand and DH took my girls out for the day and I just laid there and cried, ate & watched TV. I know it doesn't feel like it now but the pain gets easier. You just find a way to deal with it while continuing to live your life. Hugs to you! 


So many hugs mama! I know you went through two as well! I really can't wait to see your beautiful girl once she is here! You don't know how much your encouragement helps me!

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting doras:
Sorry. 


Thank you

mum7 TTC since Feb 2016; 2 angel babies; United Kingdom 56 posts
Jul 10th '16

a poem for your angel
How do you love a person who never got to be, or try to envision a face you never got to see? How do you mourn the death of one who never got to live. When there's nothing to feel good about and nothing to forgive? I love you, my little baby, my companion of the night. Wandering through my lonely hours, beautiful and bright. What does it mean to die before you ever were born, to live the lovely night of life and never see the dawn? Ah! My little baby, you lived like anyone! Life's a burst of joy and pain. And then like yours, it's done. I love you, my little baby, just as if you'd lived for years. No more, no less, I think of you, the Angel of my tears.

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting mumlibby:
a poem for your angel
How do you love a person who never got to be, or try to envision a face you never got to see? How do you mourn the death of one who never got to live. When there's nothing to feel good about and nothing to forgive? I love you, my little baby, my companion of the night. Wandering through my lonely hours, beautiful and bright. What does it mean to die before you ever were born, to live the lovely night of life and never see the dawn? Ah! My little baby, you lived like anyone! Life's a burst of joy and pain. And then like yours, it's done. I love you, my little baby, just as if you'd lived for years. No more, no less, I think of you, the Angel of my tears.


That's beautiful. Thank you so much.

Bunni♥+4 4 kids; 5 angel babies; ., IL, United States 4196 posts
Jul 10th '16

I'm sorry girl! Some people should think a little more before they speak. I know how you feel tho. I'd never thought I would go through it 4 times and one being so late. A pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. You will get stronger in time. Be easy with yourself! 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting Bunni♥2+bump:
I'm sorry girl! Some people should think a little more before they speak. I know how you feel tho. I'd never thought I would go through it 4 times and one being so late. A pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. You will get stronger in time. Be easy with yourself! 


Hugs girl. I hate you had to go through 4. No mama should ever go through that. Especially when they really want their baby! I'm so excited to see your little baby grow, and get to see what you are having, and especially excited to see pictures of your little baby in January!

Bunni♥+4 4 kids; 5 angel babies; ., IL, United States 4196 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting Jenn+4❤️:

Hugs girl. I hate you had to go through 4. No mama should ever go through that. Especially when they really want their baby! I'm so excited to see your little baby grow, and get to see what you are having, and especially excited to see pictures of your little baby in January!


I wish no one had to go through it! Its been an heartbreaking journey that's for sure. Thank you, hope this one is healthy and will bake for 40 weeks. I hope the best for you and you'll get your rainbow someday in your arms! 

Jenn+5 ❤️ TTC since May 2017; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Town you've never heard of, OH, United States 13470 posts
Jul 10th '16

Quoting Bunni♥2+bump:

I wish no one had to go through it! Its been an heartbreaking journey that's for sure. Thank you, hope this one is healthy and will bake for 40 weeks. I hope the best for you and you'll get your rainbow someday in your arms! 


Hugs! This is your rainbow! Thank you. I'm not going to try again until next year. 

¡VinHaute! Kansas City, MO, United States 47544 posts
Jul 10th '16

An alternate view if you will.. People tend to want to help in sometimes un-helpable situations. Just think, at least these people care enough about you to check on you and to offer what they can. You're obviously loved when people ask these kinds of questions, however annoying they are. I don't think anyone is telling you to get over it. I think in most cases, people's hearts are in the right place.

*BrittNicole* Due April 11; TTC since Jul 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ohio 4373 posts
Jul 10th '16

I'm so sorry Hun... I'm still grieving my baby too and it's been a couple months now... Still feels fresh... Hugs!