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Idk What To Do Lowkeylys Due February 17; Valley Center, KS, United States 2 posts
Jun 30th '16

Idk how to tell my parents I've had sex with a 13 year old boy and we fucked up and now I'm pregnant. I'm currently 5 weeks pregnant and I'm 14 years old. I'm so nervous to tell them. Can someone help me please? Question

TinkerBaby TTC TTC since Feb 2016; 1 angel baby; Sydney, NS, Australia 1751 posts
Jun 30th '16

There's no easy way of doing this, you've just got to come out and tell them. Maybe a letter would be easier than face to face. 

bia. Due December 26 (boy); 3 kids; ., ., Portugal 102621 posts
status Jun 30th '16

Yikes. 

Tashu84 2 kids; NAPIER, NZ, New Zealand 1908 posts
Jun 30th '16

You are both minors.  There isn't really much you can do but to tell your parents.  At the end of the day, you are NOT the only one at fault just remember that. :)  I can't say I would be happy about my 14 year old having sex but these things do happen.  Yeah they will probably be shocked, they will most likely be angry but they are your parents and are there for you.  They will help you deal with this but that can't happen until you tell them what has happened.  If it's easier, have your best friend with you as support.  Any action you take at 14 needs parental consent.  Best of luck.

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Jun 30th '16


Surprised good luck.

lamb_nodules 2 kids; United Kingdom 3728 posts
Jun 30th '16

Write her a letter. I know I'd need a few moments or hours to collect myself and get my temper under control if my daughter had such news. 

°•♡Alice♡•° TTC since Jun 2013; 1 angel baby; Wonderland, VA, United States 3693 posts
Jun 30th '16

I'd sit down and write out what I want to say. I'd start with "Mom, I have something really important to tell you and I would like for you to please let me finish before you say anything..." and go from there. Have her sit down, make sure its private and have a good bit of time. 

user banned United States 5 posts
Jun 30th '16

Quoting °•♡Alice♡•°:
I'd sit down and write out what I want to say. I'd start with "Mom, I have something really important to tell you and I would like for you to please let me finish before you say anything..." and go from there. Have her sit down, make sure its private and have a good bit of time. 


This. And then you need to weigh your options. I want you to understand that this baby will, financially, be your parents responsibility for a few years. 

user banned 2 kids; 2 angel babies; United States 81 posts
Jun 30th '16

Quoting Jas1989:

This. And then you need to weigh your options. I want you to understand that this baby will, financially, be your parents responsibility for a few years. 


Agreed. 

~*~Cassi~*~ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Bar Harbor, ME, United States 1560 posts
Jun 30th '16

Consider writing them a letter. Its important you do it right away because you need to get prenatal care, start taking vitamins and taking care of yourself unless you are considering other options, but even so you're  going to need their support. Regardless on if you plan to keep the baby or not its best they know sooner rather then later. Good luck.

NinjaSquirrel United States 8146 posts
Jun 30th '16

Is this even possible?

°•♡Alice♡•° TTC since Jun 2013; 1 angel baby; Wonderland, VA, United States 3693 posts
Jun 30th '16

Quoting NinjaSquirrel :
Is this even possible?


Unfortunately, in most cases if menstruation has started the eggs are ready. And sperm are technically never not viable because of age. 

ILS♡ERS♡ZDS♡ 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Small town, PA, United States 2422 posts
Jun 30th '16

I would sit down with your parents ASAP and weigh out your options. A baby takes a lot time and money and no one hires at 14 so you would need your parents help or some kind of assistance. Also you should be almost 7 weeks not 5 weeks. Good luck.

NinjaSquirrel United States 8146 posts
Jun 30th '16

Quoting °•♡Alice♡•°:

Unfortunately, in most cases if menstruation has started the eggs are ready. And sperm are technically never not viable because of age. 



dead wrong

tinana+3 3 kids; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 48284 posts
Jun 30th '16

Quoting Lowkeylys:
Idk how to tell my parents I've had sex with a 13 year old boy and we fucked up and now I'm pregnant. I'm currently 5 weeks pregnant and I'm 14 years old. I'm so nervous to tell them. Can someone help me please? Question


I mean... I'd have been more nervous at 14 to lay down naked with someone else 38

Just do it. Woman up! Nothing we can tell you to do will make it easier.