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OMFG!! Tashu84 2 kids; NAPIER, NZ, New Zealand 1908 posts
Apr 2nd '16

Free to good home, 1 feral brat who's ADHD meds have worn off.

Seriously OVER this kid today.  At this rate, tomorrow is his birthday and there will be no presents, no Pizza Hut, no Birthday cake and no trip to the park with friends for some junk food.  I know it's his birthday but I don't see why I should go out of my way to spend a weeks wages on this kid.

The sooner we hear back about an afternoon tablet, the better.  This is a mix of him being being a d**k and having ADHD.

Britny 4 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 20873 posts
Apr 3rd '16

I can't even begin on how mad I am reading this post having ADHD myself.

Poor little guy 

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8256 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Um sorry you're having a tough day but...what?  Surprised

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10689 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Calm down, if he isn't on his meds, he can't help it. Poor kid. 

mommy of 2 liddo monsters 2 kids; San Diego, California 724 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Oh wow that's horrible poor kid you need to relax its not his fault

⭐No Apologies Due April 10; Miami, FL, United States 4076 posts
Apr 3rd '16

I'm pretty sure if he's off his meds and has ADHD, he's not intentionally setting out to be "a d**k." Geez. Poor kid, he can't help it. I'm sure if you had an illness and were off your meds, there would be some behavior you couldn't control. 

Oh Why Not 2 kids; Hallandale beach, Fl, United States 8672 posts
Apr 3rd '16


Surprisedwow, you're awful. Have some patience. Ffs. It's not his fault if he's out of meds.

°•♡Alice♡•° TTC since Jun 2013; 1 angel baby; Wonderland, VA, United States 3693 posts
Apr 3rd '16


Unknown please tell us that you aren't serious about taking away his birthday from him. I get that you are upset and at wits end but that is alittle excessive. That being said, in a few hours you will come back and blame your bad mood for those words and say you would never feel that way legitimately, but he can't control his illness no more then you can control your explosive manner. In all fairness, this IS under the special needs heading...

user banned 1 child; Norfolk, VA, United States 338 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Sounds like you're really frustrated and that sucks. I hope things get better for you soon but I also hope you don't actually call him a feral brat and that was only used here. 

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102628 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Quoting *No Apologies*:
I'm pretty sure if he's off his meds and has ADHD, he's not intentionally setting out to be "a d**k." Geez. Poor kid, he can't help it. I'm sure if you had an illness and were off your meds, there would be some behavior you couldn't control. 


100% 

Damn OP. 

user banned 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United States 1921 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Wow thats awful poor guy won't have a birthday because he's not on his meds. I don't think it's ever right to take a kids birthday party away from them for "being a d**k" let alone it isnt his fault to begin with. Love your kids while they are stilL kids! Especially if they need some extra lovin'!

Tashu84 2 kids; NAPIER, NZ, New Zealand 1908 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Um, you guys need to take a joke.  Really.  For your information, he IS medicated.  We are currently waiting for an afternoon dose to help him sleep better.  There is no point giving him any Melatonin if he's not calm enough for bed but there is a BIG difference between his ADHD affecting him and him being a brat.  He's being a brat so don't even think it's about the ADHD.  I KNOW my son.  I have dealt with this for the last 6 years.  I'm not that stupid or that f**king negligent.  

And no, I'm not witholding his birthday presents from him.  It's his birthday for crying out loud.  Am I NOT allowed to express frustration anymore??

And just for further insult, the doctor also suspects I have ADHD so yes, I get him.

Tashu84 2 kids; NAPIER, NZ, New Zealand 1908 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Quoting •○♡Alice♡○•:

Unknown please tell us that you aren't serious about taking away his birthday from him. I get that you are upset and at wits end but that is alittle excessive. That being said, in a few hours you will come back and blame your bad mood for those words and say you would never feel that way legitimately, but he can't control his illness no more then you can control your explosive manner. In all fairness, this IS under the special needs heading...



Thank you.  I'm frustrated that's all.  I'm not going to take away his birthday presents or cake.  Shit, I'd feel pretty unimportant if someone did that to me. :(

.casper. 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Neverland, NJ, Christmas Island 2012 posts
Apr 3rd '16

What? Did you just call your child a d**k? Maybe spend less time looking at batman shit for your new baby and give him some love and attention that he needs. He has ADHD...he can't help it. Try to be a bit more understanding. He's a child, you're an adult. The only one that sounds like they're being a d**k is you

bia. 4 kids; ., ., Portugal 102628 posts
Apr 3rd '16

Quoting casperj:
What? Did you just call your child a d**k? Maybe spend less time looking at batman shit for your new baby and give him some love and attention that he needs. He has ADHD...he can't help it. Try to be a bit more understanding. He's a child, you're an adult. The only one that sounds like they're being a d**k is you


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