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tinana+3 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 48329 posts
Apr 21st '16

Quoting Mommy2beeeeeee: 


Her fertility has nothing to do with someone else wanting a baby. There are plenty of kids in foster care that are waiting to be adopted anyway.

user banned Due January 2; 3 kids; Illinois 1045 posts
May 30th '16

Quoting tinana+2:

Her fertility has nothing to do with someone else wanting a baby. There are plenty of kids in foster care that are waiting to be adopted anyway.

I'm glad you said it!

Don't let the backhanded shaming and guilting work. It's okay to terminate, and you do not have to feel ashamed because others face fertility issues. That is not your fault or problem to fix! The ONLY thing that is important is that you make the right choice for yourself. I have faced what you are considering and it was the right choice for me. I have zero regrets. I have also had a close friend adopt a child out.. She swears it's her greatest mistake. Everyone has their own feelings.. Everyone has their rights. And most importantly for each person every situation is different and will bring about different feelings. Please if you want advice on how it worked out for me feel free to message me. I will be glad to give you 100% not biased honest advice! 

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37265 posts
Jun 3rd '16

Quoting Mommy2beeeeeee:
Get educated on what you want to know for your sake...
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there are people who want a baby but can't get pregnant. You are so blessed:)
If you want you could look into adoption too!!


so much to say, but just wow. 

ssmith397 Due September 14 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United States 681 posts
Jun 7th '16

Give them a call, they are great there is no judgment from them. You can do all the processing and appointments and back out last min if you need or want to. they will go over ALL your options with you. any decision you make is  yours alone.  But you have to do what is best for you.