I hate this baby. Confused(Sort of) Mom United States 2 posts
Nov 5th '15

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Double Jeopardy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Seattle, WA, United States 19389 posts
Nov 5th '15

If you don't want it and are going to hate and resent this baby, then you should abort or put it up for adoption. No child should be brought into a world and be hated by its own mother.

NikkiLeAnne 4 kids; Illinois 3589 posts
Nov 5th '15

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If you are referring to your child as a thing, I'd say abortion or adoption are two options to look into :/

Alysha[FirstTimeMommy♡] 1 child; United States 379 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting Confused(Sort of) Mom :
I have no idea if it's normal. This is my first pregnancy with zero support, as it's father (my husband) is currently deployed and difficult  to find time to discuss things with, and all my family is states away. But I can't help but feel like I resent this unborn child inside of me. I hate everything that it is, and the restrictions it's going to put on my life. Everyone keeps saying it will be fine, but I don't even know if I want to wait to find out. I refuse to have a child if I'm not going to love it. There is no reason to bring a child into this world under such terrible circumstances. I just can't stand it. I want it gone. I don't want to have to give up work and college in order to raise this thing. I don't want to stick it with a babysitter all its life either. I have helped raised many nieces and nephews, and I loved them with all my heart. So I'm not scared. I just don't think I want to be a mom. I don't know how to not hate this thing. I have insane bouts of rage toward this thing and how much it will ruin my life. I'm not looking for nasty comments or hateful remarks. I am looking for some sort of insight or support. I've never heard of someone hating their unborn child. I've never heard of someone feel so unattached to it. But here I am, and I cannot seem to figure out what to do. 


I don't understand this at all.... If you dont want your baby there are so many people who desperately want children that can't have them. Find someone who can give it the love it deserves

user banned United States 51 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting CircleK:
If you don't want it and are going to hate and resent this baby, then you should abort or put it up for adoption. No child should be brought into a world and be hated by its own mother.


I agree. Also, seek some therapy OP. You need it.

Austs_Momma Due June 30; 1 child; 1 angel baby; CD, NY, United States 3814 posts
Nov 5th '15

Consider adoption? And get on some good birth control to stop future babies

Leesi Due August 17; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; United States 269 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting CircleK:
If you don't want it and are going to hate and resent this baby, then you should abort or put it up for adoption. No child should be brought into a world and be hated by its own mother.


Agreed.

NikkiLeAnne 4 kids; Illinois 3589 posts
Nov 5th '15

Yes. Birth control and condoms. 

lotsamama 3 kids; 1 angel baby; United States 844 posts
Nov 5th '15

How far along are you?  

B. R. E 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Far Far Away, Co, United States 1751 posts
Nov 5th '15

Surprised I kind of wish I didn't click on this and read it! It's so sad to be referring to your baby as a "thing" that breaks my heart! I hope you find it in your heart to give this innocent baby a better family! Adoption! Someone who would refer to this baby as their "life" and let him/her be loved!

Alysha[FirstTimeMommy♡] 1 child; United States 379 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting Jaileene & Jasleene's mom:
Surprised I kind of wish I didn't click on this and read it! It's so sad to be referring to your baby as a "thing" that breaks my heart! I hope you find it in your heart to give this innocent baby a better family! Adoption! Someone who would refer to this baby as their "life" and let him/her be loved!


Right.. I'm hoping op is just trolling. It's hard to believe somone could feel this way about their baby.. 

B. R. E 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Far Far Away, Co, United States 1751 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting Alysha[FirstTimeMommy♡]:

Right.. I'm hoping op is just trolling. It's hard to believe somone could feel this way about their baby.. 


Idk maybe it's my hormones but I seriously had tears in my eyes!!! There's woman that would kill to have a life inside and than there's this? I hope it's a troll and not real! And if it's real she needs serious help!!! Who knows, she might have this poor baby and harm him/her from all this hate!

zamora24 3 kids; United States 299 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting Jaileene & Jasleene's mom:

Idk maybe it's my hormones but I seriously had tears in my eyes!!! There's woman that would kill to have a life inside and than there's this? I hope it's a troll and not real! And if it's real she needs serious help!!! Who knows, she might have this poor baby and harm him/her from all this hate!


This! It made me cry reading this! I have an aunt who desperately wants a baby and she cant. This breaks my heart 

Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
Nov 5th '15

Quoting Jaileene & Jasleene's mom:
Surprised I kind of wish I didn't click on this and read it! It's so sad to be referring to your baby as a "thing" that breaks my heart! I hope you find it in your heart to give this innocent baby a better family! Adoption! Someone who would refer to this baby as their "life" and let him/her be loved!


Nothing wrong with that .. all three of mine were referred to as parasites until they were born.

Although I do agree with the putting baby up for adoption if you are going to resent it. And if it's not too late you could always look into abortion as well OP. You have options and you need to look into them.

Gold 3 kids; Stuffed with a, ., Turkey 67018 posts
Nov 5th '15

I'm sorry you're feeling like this,  OP.   How far along are you?  Is abortion an option?

I haven't really connected with this pregnancy either.  It's hard sometimes.  I hope you're okay.