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Living @ home with parents vs SAHM user banned
Feb 2nd '15

So i take so much shit on here cuz i live with my parents with my 2 yo son. I cant afford a place of my own, even if I bought nothing for myself.

i see so may sahm on here so what is the difference? Ur still living off someone else. at least i have a job and take care of my son. how can a sahm bash someone living with there parents?

ElleCole+triplets Due June 9 (girl); 5 kids; 3 angel babies; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 33265 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Oh lordy

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 22314 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Isn't a SAHM someone without a job?


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kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Because with being a SAHM.. You and your husband are a unit and he has agreed to let you maintain the house, while he pays the bills.

i doubt you are cleaning the house, cooking the meals, doing the shopping, etc.. Your parents do that. You may do chores.. But it's not the same as maintaining your own house.

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21473 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Worst troll ever. 

loser mom 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 12277 posts
Feb 2nd '15

You're kidding right? Unknown

A SAHM manages the household. It's a partnership with your husband. 

Amelia Pond TTC since Sep 2014; 2 kids; Kansas City, MO, United States 2610 posts
Feb 2nd '15

I'm a working mom but I believe a sahm job is to run the household, which you wouldn't do living with you parents. There's no comparison. If you need to live with you parents that's fine, you don't have to defend yourself, but don't put down other women to help cope with it. 

xRekani 1 child; Orlando, FL, United States 676 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Quoting kthx.:
Because with being a SAHM.. You and your husband are a unit and he has agreed to let you maintain the house, while he pays the bills.

i doubt you are cleaning the house, cooking the meals, doing the shopping, etc.. Your parents do that. You may do chores.. But it's not the same as maintaining your own house.


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I agree with this completely and I live with my parents!  It's very different to when I was with my husband.  I definitely think a SAHM has It harder than someone who lives with their parents

Mommy&Noah Los Angelos, CA, United States 2709 posts
Feb 2nd '15

It's not close to being the same thing seriously. 

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
Feb 2nd '15

You know what, OP, you're right. Totally legit comparison. A clueless, immature teenager who can't figure out how to use birth control and smokes pot while pregnant is exactly the same thing as a SAHM.

NerfHerder 2 kids; Denver, CO, United States 6255 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Quoting kthx.:
Because with being a SAHM.. You and your husband are a unit and he has agreed to let you maintain the house, while he pays the bills.

i doubt you are cleaning the house, cooking the meals, doing the shopping, etc.. Your parents do that. You may do chores.. But it's not the same as maintaining your own house.


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and OP you get so much shit because of all your ignorant posts. 

Catheybaby Due September 25; 1 child; United States 161 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Quoting kthx.:
Because with being a SAHM.. You and your husband are a unit and he has agreed to let you maintain the house, while he pays the bills.

i doubt you are cleaning the house, cooking the meals, doing the shopping, etc.. Your parents do that. You may do chores.. But it's not the same as maintaining your own house.


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nightshaderebel 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Magnolia, TX, United States 4809 posts
Feb 2nd '15

how can a sahm bash a teenager who lives with her parents and smokes pot while pregnant?
lets see. 
i worked my ass off for years. i had a good job before i got pregnant with dd. i'm married to an engineer, who i paid to put through f**king school. 
im not smoking pot while pregnant.

  only the last is actually important. 
i dont care that you live with your parents, i do care that you arent attempting to do better for yourself. your kid deserves better. the one you have, and the one  you are having.

user banned United States 1598 posts
Feb 2nd '15

wow. forget it. sorry i even asked

loser mom 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 12277 posts
Feb 2nd '15

Quoting ItalianPrincessChick:
wow. forget it. sorry i even asked



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