user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Rανєη:

So why not focus on your baby only then? Get a job. Get yourself together. Leave baby daddy out of it because he seems like a real piece of crap. Finish school. Be the best mother that you can be. Love the baby and yourself. Then think about a relationship down the road with a decent guy who will love you and the baby both. Preferably one who doesn't think you are just a c*m dumpster. 


Am I not? It's not here yet so not much I can do. The semester is over in a few weeks, and I'll be home looking for a job. I actually have a cousin that's looking into a job for me now. She doesn't know I'm pregnant yet but I told her not to tell my mom. It doesn't make sense for me to look for a job here in california because after I tell my parents about the baby, my dad won't pay my tuition and they won't pay my rent so I won't have anywhere to stay. 

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JKBC♡:

How do you know she isn't a permanent person in his life? They're together and he wants you to abort, so obviously he wants to keep her around. How do you not get that you're the non factor in his life? You're the side ho, because you're easy and have no class or standards and that's all you'll ever be, he'll never care about you. He's probably one of those dudes who will try researching how to cause an abortion with herbs to slip in your food or drink. Especially once he sees you took his money and aren't going through with the abortion. He gave you money for an abortion, it wants the abortion to happen and is going to be FURIOUS when he finds out.


She's his GIRLFRIEND firstly. He's lying his teeth off to her. Still cheating. Promising her things that he's already broken. He's committed to her just as much as he's committed to me. What's the title without the loyalty, commitment etc? I wanted to tell him sometime this week or next week, after my appointment today that I couldn't get the abortion but I might wait until I'm home to say so he can't touch me like you think he will.

April+James=Cute baby 1 child; 3 angel babies; United States 987 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not going to do that but I'm saying that to say that I might not be a priority but I can make myself a threat to whoever he's dating. I won't but I can.



You are of NO threat to anyone. You are just stupid plain and simple. A black hole.

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JΔ$:


Can't take care of yourself but you're having a baby.


That will change.

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Am I not? It's not here yet so not much I can do. The semester is over in a few weeks, and I'll be home looking for a job. I actually have a cousin that's looking into a job for me now. She doesn't know I'm pregnant yet but I told her not to tell my mom. It doesn't make sense for me to look for a job here in california because after I tell my parents about the baby, my dad won't pay my tuition and they won't pay my rent so I won't have anywhere to stay. 


Good golly you chose to throw away a free ride through college to have a baby with someone who doesn't love you? 

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting ❀Sarah❀:

How?  


Getting a job and paying for my own stuff.

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Rανєη:

Good golly you chose to throw away a free ride through college to have a baby with someone who doesn't love you? 


I hate college

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Getting a job and paying for my own stuff.


And what happens when your minimum wage job can't provide the things you need?  Or you have to take time off to have your baby?

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Ⓞoℊiℯ ℬooℊiℯ:

And what happens when your minimum wage job can't provide the things you need?  Or you have to take time off to have your baby?


I'm going to take him to court for child support, and apply for WIC and food stamps as soon as I touch my hometown. And don't say anything about that because I'll be working and government help is there for those who need it

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I hate college


Thats so messed up. You are given a free opportunity to venture farther into your education when there are people out there who can't. And all you can say is that YOU HATE COLLEGE? Makes me sad. What are you even going to college for then?

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JKBC♡:

And you think he'll still want anything to do with you then?  He's only talking nice to you now because he gave you money for an abortion and thinks you're going to go through with it. Once he realizing you're trying to trap his ass...... yeah good luck with that. See how much he wants you to be a part of his life forever. 


I'm taking control of my own life. Getting a job and taking care of mine. I don't need him, I just want him BADLY.

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm going to take him to court for child support, and apply for WIC and food stamps as soon as I touch my hometown. And don't say anything about that because I'll be working and government help is there for those who need it


If I wanted to say something about it, I would.  Wink

Your whole plan is to do minimal for yourself and let everyone else take care of the rest.  It's a pretty terrible plan.

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting ❀Sarah❀:

Right?  Why are you wasting your parents hard earned money?  Just drop out now.


Education is not for everyone and I shouldn't be forced to do it. I personally would rather it be known within my family that I made a mistake and got pregnant and had to leave school then because I just dropped out. Everyone is different, okay.

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Rανєη:

Thats so messed up. You are given a free opportunity to venture farther into your education when there are people out there who can't. And all you can say is that YOU HATE COLLEGE? Makes me sad. What are you even going to college for then?


I'm going because my parents tell me that I have too. I'm going because my sister went and succeeded. Nobody cares that I don't want to be here.

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Education is not for everyone and I shouldn't be forced to do it. I personally would rather it be known within my family that I made a mistake and got pregnant and had to leave school then because I just dropped out. Everyone is different, okay.


You know... plenty of women get pregnant while they're in college and continue their education regardless.  What makes you think your family wouldn't expect the same from you?