Double Jeopardy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Seattle, WA, United States 19389 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Yeah I do. It's happening now. Baby daddy is lying and cheating on his girlfriend with his baby mama. Baby daddy is lying to his baby mama about his relationship. Baby daddy is still having unprotected sex with his baby mama which often times produces more kids.. that's usually the blueprint of these "relationships".. for as long as I let him he'll keep coming back to me and we'll keep having babies. Not saying that that'll be me but that's how it happens


eta: And I'm saying that to say, as long as I let him he'll keep having sex with me, keep doing whatever to make sure I'm "happy" while lying to whoever he chooses to be his girlfriend and I have the power to ruin whatever relationship he has. Especially, if he decides to come around for his baby. I've proven I can f**k him when I want.


No no no. He's not making sure you're "happy". He's making sure he's happy. If he wanted you to be happy and knowing very well that you want to be his girlfriend, he would have already made that happen.

°•♡Alice♡•° TTC since Jun 2013; 1 angel baby; Wonderland, VA, United States 3693 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CircleK:

No no no. He's not making sure you're "happy". He's making sure he's happy. If he wanted you to be happy and knowing very well that you want to be his girlfriend, he would have already made that happen.



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user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting BαtMαɳ:

You are obviously not taking into account that you are already planning on being that crazy baby mama, blowing shit wide open to his family, ruining his relationships, stealing money from him by lying that you need money for an abortion you have no plans on actually getting. 

He won't touch you with a 10 foot pole when all this is over and done with. 

ETA: And that's just all within the first f**king 9 WEEKS of pregnancy. Girl bye. 


I'm not going to ruin his relationship. I SAID I CAN IF I WANT TOO. I won't but I can. I've already explained my reasoning for wanting to tell his parents and the money. If trying to do those things for my baby makes me crazy then I'll wear that title proudly.

ChibsTelford Empire, AL, United States 398 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not a manipulative, crazy person Sarah.. I'm just explaining myself and the position and power I can potentially have


But you ARE crazy. How are you not getting this?

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CircleK:

No no no. He's not making sure you're "happy". He's making sure he's happy. If he wanted you to be happy and knowing very well that you want to be his girlfriend, he would have already made that happen.


Same thing. He's telling me what I want to hear, doing things to make sure I'm happy which in turn will make sure I keep having sex with him.

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not going to ruin his relationship. I SAID I CAN IF I WANT TOO. I won't but I can. I've already explained my reasoning for wanting to tell his parents and the money. If trying to do those things for my baby makes me crazy then I'll wear that title proudly.


You already stated before that if he didn't acknowledge the baby you were going to tell his girlfriend and also that you'd tell his family about the baby if he didn't.  You have serious control issues.

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JKBC♡:

No actually you said that was your plan if he denies any part in this baby's life. You don't remember saying how you'd show up at his family functions and you'd make sure his gf found out? 


Well yeah and that's still the plan..

What I'm talking about it any other relationship he has. Like I how I said baby mamas can ruin relationships if they're still f**king their baby daddy. That's what I meant. His parents will know if he doesn't tell them but I also said I don't care about telling his gf because she's not a permanent person in his life but I do want her to leave him 

Double Jeopardy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Seattle, WA, United States 19389 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Same thing. He's telling me what I want to hear, doing things to make sure I'm happy which in turn will make sure I keep having sex with him.


You're really that stupid, aren't you? No one is going to go and piss off his side chick. Then he won't have a side chick anymore. DUH! As long as he can keep lying to you and making you believe what he wants you to believe so he can get the sex. But once he's tired of you, you think he's going to keep you around, even if he decides he's going to step up and be a father to the baby you forced on him? He doesn't have to ever speak to you ever again.

Lexi Rae Tea 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florida 453 posts
Nov 10th '14

I can't help but think this ifs a troll account, because id like to think no one is this much of a moron, you know?

Prob. Someone who can't get their fix of drama irl.

user banned f**k off, fl, United States 5174 posts
Nov 10th '14

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Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Well yeah and that's still the plan..

What I'm talking about it any other relationship he has. Like I how I said baby mamas can ruin relationships if they're still f**king their baby daddy. That's what I meant. His parents will know if he doesn't tell them but I also said I don't care about telling his gf because she's not a permanent person in his life but I do want her to leave him 


Yeah so about those control issues...

You thrive on having the power to destroy the relationships this guy has with any woman and also with his own family.  You "don't plan on using it" but you want to make sure he knows you CAN use it so you get what you want from him.

Tσѕнιε 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Derp, WV, United States 10690 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not going to ruin his relationship. I SAID I CAN IF I WANT TOO. I won't but I can. I've already explained my reasoning for wanting to tell his parents and the money. If trying to do those things for my baby makes me crazy then I'll wear that title proudly.


So why not focus on your baby only then? Get a job. Get yourself together. Leave baby daddy out of it because he seems like a real piece of crap. Finish school. Be the best mother that you can be. Love the baby and yourself. Then think about a relationship down the road with a decent guy who will love you and the baby both. Preferably one who doesn't think you are just a c*m dumpster. 

user banned f**k off, fl, United States 5174 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Rανєη:

So why not focus on your baby only then? Get a job. Get yourself together. Leave baby daddy out of it because he seems like a real piece of crap. Finish school. Be the best mother that you can be. Love the baby and yourself. Then think about a relationship down the road with a decent guy who will love you and the baby both. Preferably one who doesn't think you are just a c*m dumpster


I never say lol but LOL =D

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Ⓞoℊiℯ ℬooℊiℯ:

Yeah so about those control issues...

You thrive on having the power to destroy the relationships this guy has with any woman and also with his own family.  You "don't plan on using it" but you want to make sure he knows you CAN use it so you get what you want from him.


Like blackmailing him? No. I can do that now if I want

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

Like blackmailing him? No. I can do that now if I want


You're already planning to.