BD doesn't want me with anyone else & isn't ready for a chil user banned
Nov 10th '14

I was snooping his girlfriend's instagram and they spent Saturday afternoon/night together. I was sad and hurt because he lied to me so I decided to call up a friend of mine last night who really likes me and we went out for ice cream. I took a pic and put it as my profile picture on my whatsapp account. The ice cream date meant absolutely nothing, I'm in love with my bd and nobody else. It was just ice cream and an attempt to get a reaction out of him.. Childish as f**k I know but I was in my feelings..

Anyways he called me and asked me if I found someone new, don't be an easy ho, how the f**k can I go somewhere without telling him, did I have sex, give a blowjob, where else did we go, etc. after answering all his questions, he told me he didn't want me with anyone else and he can give me everything this guy can and more. I asked him if he wants me to be his side chick forever and he said he wants me in his life forever. Then I asked why he would want me to kill our baby and he said because he's not ready for a child yet. I apologized for going out then he came to pick me up and we had sex with no talk of the baby or my date. 

I'm so f**king confused about life and this relationship. I feel like if he breaks up with his girlfriend then he'll come back to me but he won't do it. So I was contemplating telling her that I'm pregnant so that she can leave him and then I can have my family. I have her #, facebook, instagram, I see her everyday it would take little effort to tell her and I want too but I'm probably not going to right now. Don't know how long I'll be able to hold my tongue though Very Sad

April+James=Cute baby 1 child; 3 angel babies; United States 987 posts
Nov 10th '14

hold on, I am grabbing my coffee.

user banned 2 kids; I'm Hiding in, NY, United States 10528 posts
Nov 10th '14

Dude. Come off it already. 

April+James=Cute baby 1 child; 3 angel babies; United States 987 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JΔ$:

He doesn't want your kid because he doesnt want to be tied down to you. He's just keeping you around as an option. Congrats. You're his back up plan.



I don't even think she is any part of a plan to him. I think she is easy, and that is all he wants. Cake and eat it too kinda thing, if any of what she says is true.

:)mommyandmore(: 2 kids; Dayton, TX, United States 1943 posts
Nov 10th '14

...Okay, psycho. Good luck with that.

Robbie1820 United Kingdom 3 posts
Nov 10th '14

His girlfriends going to be such a good mum to your baby :)

SuckerPinch 2 kids; the desert, CA, United States 4321 posts
Nov 10th '14

Surprised

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Smells like BS.

April+James=Cute baby 1 child; 3 angel babies; United States 987 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting BαtMαɳ:
Your life a one huge f**king joke, after another. 



Yo I love the new pic!

user banned Due June 19; TTC since Sep 2014; USA, US, United States 686 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting JΔ$:

He doesn't want your kid because he doesnt want to be tied down to you. He's just keeping you around as an option. Congrats. You're his back up plan.


I'm not really an option anymore. Our baby which is tied to both of us has made him/her (in turn, me) a priority and a permanent person in his life.

Double Jeopardy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Seattle, WA, United States 19389 posts
Nov 10th '14

You're his side chick and that's all he'll ever want you to be. Go ahead and tell his girlfriend. He'll dump you quicker then you know it. You're a joke.

April+James=Cute baby 1 child; 3 angel babies; United States 987 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not really an option anymore. Our baby which is tied to both of us has made him/her (in turn, me) a priority and a permanent person in his life.



No it really didn't. Open your eyes. Seriously. Shy

Pumpkin King 4 kids; Halloweentown, .., United States 7539 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not really an option anymore. Our baby which is tied to both of us has made him/her (in turn, me) a priority and a permanent person in his life.


He can be involved with the baby and not you if he wants.

SuckerPinch 2 kids; the desert, CA, United States 4321 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting Ⓞoℊiℯ ℬooℊiℯ:
Smells like BS.



Exclamation

:)mommyandmore(: 2 kids; Dayton, TX, United States 1943 posts
Nov 10th '14

Quoting CollegeGirl ♡ #9:

I'm not really an option anymore. Our baby which is tied to both of us has made him/her (in turn, me) a priority and a permanent person in his life.


You mean the baby he gives zero f**ks about? Rofl. Okay, then.