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i had.a miscarrige Adeleana TTC since Feb 2014; United States 48 posts
Jan 8th '14

sigh i was so excited for this baby and i was 9 weeks going on 10 andmy fiance god damn i tried to keep my stress levels down but drama at school and it just got to me i had already i know im 17 but damn this hurts alot :'( i really wish i didnt have temper

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 8th '14

It wasn't caused by your temper or anything you did hun. Most likely there was a chromosomal issue with the baby. That is the most common reason for a miscarriage. *hugs*

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2759 posts
Jan 8th '14

I am very sorry for your loss. It hurts whether you are 17 or 37. And you cannot blame yourself. There is nothing productive in that, hun. Losses just happen sometimes, as much as it doesn't make sense. :(

Adeleana TTC since Feb 2014; United States 48 posts
Jan 8th '14

thanks i mean we was trying to get stuff for the baby and save money and now .... idk he wants to try again for a baby and i do want a baby but idk not after all of this

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 8th '14

Quoting A Marie Clark:


This is S&L. Don't post if it's not to be supportive.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 8th '14

Quoting Adeleana:
thanks i mean we was trying to get stuff for the baby and save money and now .... idk he wants to try again for a baby and i do want a baby but idk not after all of this


I know all too well the feeling of wanting back what you had. But the best thing for your future baby is that you don't have one now. Get your education out of the way and some experience in life. I know it really hurts right now though.

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Jan 8th '14

Nothing you did caused the loss. Something was probably wrong in development- those first few weeks there are super important critical developments going on and so much can go wrong. I also had a loss at 8w 2d. I made a little memorial for the baby and planted a tree in their memory to keep taking care of.

Mad Hatter 1 child; ........, .., United States 17350 posts
Jan 8th '14

Quoting Mommy of 3 little angels:

That was uncalled for, if you can't be nice keep your mouth shut. She is hurting so unless you are in her shoes or been thru it keep your mouth shut. I am so sorry for your loss op. Please. ignore this women.


Can you remove the quote please?

Mad Hatter 1 child; ........, .., United States 17350 posts
Jan 8th '14

Quoting Mommy of 3 little angels:

I removed it sorry about that.


Thank you =]

Adeleana TTC since Feb 2014; United States 48 posts
Jan 8th '14

what did the quote say i didnt even see it? and thanks everyone ill be ok i.know that

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2759 posts
Jan 9th '14

Quoting Adeleana:
what did the quote say i didnt even see it? and thanks everyone ill be ok i.know that


That's a good attitude, love. The deleted post was stupid. Someone got butt hurt because you used the words GD. Nothing major, just ignorance. :)