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!!! I just want this to end!! Long!! Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

So after the whole hair cut thing, my ex called f**king CPS (FOR THIRD TIME) on me this time on my daughter's birthday and she showed up to her party at school thankfully it was over and we took her home early so it didnt ruin it..but than since she still had to meet with me and my daughter she showed up to my job ! -_- made a BUNCH of false claims including but not limited to; black mold in my house, that I don't take her to the dr., bitching about her being on a bottle ( yes she still has one shes two and only takes it for bed and long car rides which we are slowly taking away ) ,and that she has "anxiety" when she leaves her father. So obviously NONE of it is true other than the bottle thing which is not illegal anyways we were leaving to Disney for her birthday he had her for 3 house in which he managed to ger her slightly sick since he allowed her to go in the pool fully dressed from her to toe shoes included and let her sit in wet clothes ..anyways we went and thankfully she sweated out the hint of a cold she got and was fine and had a blast! Upon coming back my boss tells me the social worker called my job and was asking question which they answered however that seemed odd since the day she came to my job she spoke to my manager anyways I called to social worker so she could come to the house check it out and I could sign the medical release forms and I asked her if they would keep calling because even tho they are cooperative they told me they dont want the drama to which she responded she NEVER called them well I find out its bd and his gf like who does that?! Then he had her the next day he had said hed give me a piece of her first hair cut we go pick her up and he brings her back in different clothes doesn't return mine and no hair so I was MAD that weekend was yom kippur (I'm jewish) so in our agreement it says I have her for that it also says if a holiday results in one parent having her two weekends in a row (which is what happened) that we would switch the next weekend so that we each have 2 consecutive weekends each ..well he didn't want that ao he called he cops AGAIN the cop was disgusted with everything I showed her and obviously noticed he was wrong about 2 days later the social worker and cops came to inspect my house and saw that EVERYTHING he said was LIES and are all Pretty much on my side and he just keeps harassing me and he keeps making himself look stupid selfish and vindictive not to mention immature... but frankly I'm just OVER IT is not good for my daughter to have this insanity all around her I really hope this ends before she's old enough to realize it :(




sorry it's long and sloppy I just needed to get it out if your read all of it thank you and for the record I left out a bunch of stuff and is Pretty sloppy written so any thing you don't understand please ask before judging Thank you

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 20th '13

You need to cut the shit. Both of you.



Who gives a shit if he calls CPS? If there's nothing wrong, you have nothing to worry about.



And stop blaming your kid getting sick, on your ex. Kids get sick. You want him blaming you every time she gets sick?



Go to court and get visitation set up so there's no more bitching and drama.



And seriously, the bottle has to go. It's essentially a mute button if you're using it for bed and long trips. Not necessary and terrible dental habits.

Mitchell.family.of.5 TTC since Aug 2013; 35 kids; Tennessee 910 posts
Sep 20th '13

That sucks he's making life rough for you. But you made your bed with him and are going to be dealing with him for a very long time. I suggest trying to come up with a parenting plan you both can agree on and stick to it. Who cares about a snip of hair? Take her next time and keep al the hair you want.

Vicki McDonald Due September 28 (boy); 3 kids; Belleville, Ontario 927 posts
Sep 20th '13

He sounds just lovely. The good news for you is my ex tried this when we first split up, as a result CPS thinks he's a total moron, and they started just coming over for tea when he called. ( since they legally have to investigate every claim, they can't just not show up)

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You need to cut the shit. Both of you. Who gives a shit if he calls CPS? If there's nothing wrong, ... [snip!] ... has to go. It's essentially a mute button if you're using it for bed and long trips. Not necessary and terrible dental habits."</blockquote>



Umm please explain what ive done that ii "need to cut the shit" and I dont care its just harassment I joke with them at this point when they come and I agree thats why we are taking it away but ahe had alot of resent changes so by the Dr's orders we are taking it slow rather than just abruptly changing something else

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You need to cut the shit. Both of you. Who gives a shit if he calls CPS? If there's nothing wrong, ... [snip!] ... has to go. It's essentially a mute button if you're using it for bed and long trips. Not necessary and terrible dental habits."</blockquote>




Oh and it was his fault im aware children get sick but letting them run around in soaked clothing does get them sick faster lol and he doea blame me when shes sick we also have been to court for all of it and if u read it it I referred to our (court ordered) parenting agreement

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You need to cut the shit. Both of you. Who ... [snip!] ... shes sick we also have been to court for all of it and if u read it it I referred to our (court ordered) parenting agreement"</blockquote>




No. Being wet does not make a child sick. Bacteria does.



If he's not abiding by the court order, file for contempt of court. Stop entertaining the drama.

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mitchell.family.of.5:</b>" That sucks he's making life rough for you. But you made your bed with him and are going to be dealing ... [snip!] ... plan you both can agree on and stick to it. Who cares about a snip of hair? Take her next time and keep al the hair you want."</blockquote>



Oh I know I'm not exactly stressing it just needed to vent honestly like I said at the I juat hope it ends before she realizes he sends cps ever 3 months :/ I try to always compromise with him and if he wants a favor (in regards to our agreement or CS) I do it so we avoid issues but he stays making motions in court against me cps cops so on and so on :(

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mitchell.family.of.5:</b>" That sucks he's making life rough ... [snip!] ... to our agreement or CS) I do it so we avoid issues but he stays making motions in court against me cps cops so on and so on :("</blockquote>




The cops are going to continue to do nothing because it's a civil matter. Let him keep wasting the courts time.

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... a child sick. Bacteria does. If he's not abiding by the court order, file for contempt of court. Stop entertaining the drama."</blockquote>



Lol ok when she has infected adenoids (which he refuses to allow her to have the surgery) yes running around in wet clothes can get her aick so Dr.Red Bottom please Sit Down

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... The cops are going to continue to do nothing because it's a civil matter. Let him keep wasting the courts time."</blockquote>




Thats what im doing they laugh at him its still harassment and I still dont want my daughter to grow up around it ?

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vicki McDonald:</b>" He sounds just lovely. The good news for you is my ex tried this when we first split up, as a result ... [snip!] ... just coming over for tea when he called. ( since they legally have to investigate every claim, they can't just not show up)"</blockquote>




Yup hes a REAL gem -_-, and yes we're getting there I have a collection of case # I show them and they laugh

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's ... [snip!] ... refuses to allow her to have the surgery) yes running around in wet clothes can get her aick so Dr.Red Bottom please Sit Down"</blockquote>




Infected meaning, bacterial. And being someone who has had them removed, I can speak from experience. And of course, general common knowledge.



Per each custody order, one parent should be a deciding factor, meaning if you can't come to an agreement, x parent gets to make the decision. So figure out who it is and if it's not you, go to court to get permission to have her surgery granted.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's ... [snip!] ... Thats what im doing they laugh at him its still harassment and I still dont want my daughter to grow up around it ?"</blockquote>




If its harassment, file charges.

Kalie Nicole's Mommy Due January 7; 1 child; Boca Raton, FL, United States 589 posts
Sep 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kalie Nicole's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... to make the decision. So figure out who it is and if it's not you, go to court to get permission to have her surgery granted."</blockquote>



Actually no there isn't nether of us can make it without the other we have shared custody and a lawyer damn you must be hell of a scholar