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"BABY DADS: Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12

so i know every man has the right to there dounts but the father of my unborn child has crossed the line just wondering if any of your babys father have even done or come close to this my babys father about a week ago told me he hopes i lose the baby that he hates me that im nasty dirty and excusse my french a wh**e all becasue i told him i didnt want him in the room when i was in labor
because he wasnt treating me the way he should not awnsering my calls when i almost got hit by a car or how at our baby doctors appt the doctore was talking about the screening for down syndrom all he had to say was ive been throught this i already have kids which i am well aware of but to say this in front of ourr doctors and bolt right after the appointment and not talk to me about what he thinks we should do all his says is my ex got it done and everything was fine so i don't care!!! really you don't care about whats going on with your child so i was pissed and told him he can be in the waiting room and see the baby ince its born but nope not good enough for him and goes off say im dirty im nasty im a wh**e the baby's not his ( he has 2 kids already you think he know how the doctors count from the first day of your last period but nope doesn't get it!!) and continued to say that he hopes i lose the baby how could you hope for death of your child!!! how sick can someone get!!!

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Apr 19th '12

Uhm... so don't deal with him. He pretty obviously isn't someone you should want around you.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Apr 19th '12

No, I have never dealt with that. I wouldn't have a child with someone like that.
He sounds like a giant POS and isn't worth your time.

Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 8124 posts
Apr 19th '12

In all honesty yea that's awful. I've heard worse stories but they involved with holding food from pregnant women and physicel abuse. I sure as heck wouldn't be letting him in the room. If he's pulling that now imagine what he'll be like during labor.

Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12

nope i told him to hit the road that i didn't want him around me because its uneeded stress! but my friend seem to think i still need to inform him about everything that happened but to me i feel he has lost that right when he told me he hope his child dies

Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 8124 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting Meaagaan McFaarlaane:" nope i told him to hit the road that i didn't want him around me because its uneeded stress! but my friend ... [snip!] ... to inform him about everything that happened but to me i feel he has lost that right when he told me he hope his child dies"


Don't let your friends tell you what to think they're not having a baby with him. Do what you think is best. If you don't want him around don't have him around.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
Apr 19th '12

Hey, another person from St. Kitts. Who's your OB?



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Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting kate & tilly:" I sure as heck wouldn't be letting him in the room. If he's pulling that now imagine what he'll be like during labor."


that is exactly what i was thinking if you can't support me now and be a team with me what is going to change my mind about you helping me well im in labor . ive been working full time and plan till untill july or august or untill my doctor tells me im crazy for working and get my ass on mat leave but he refuses to get a job and help support our child he rather sit on welfar and collect a check once a month

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23736 posts
Apr 19th '12

Sounds like you found yourself a winner. You picked well.




Stop bothering him about you or the baby. Get a DNA test and file for child support once baby arrives. I wouldn't invite him to the hospital at all.

Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting God:" Hey, another person from St. Kitts. Who's your OB? C."


dr okon hes really awesome! and has hopital right so if your ever admitted he'll more then likly be the doctor you see

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting Meaagaan McFaarlaane:" dr okon hes really awesome! and has hopital right so if your ever admitted he'll more then likly be the doctor you see"


Cool. I was seeing Dr. Chan for my pregnancy here.



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Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 8124 posts
Apr 19th '12

You really really want a strong support person with you. My rule was if you weren't helping me you weren't staying.

Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting ~~Lmnop~~:" Sounds like you found yourself a winner. You picked well. Stop bothering him about you or the baby. ... [snip!] ... you or the baby. Get a DNA test and file for child support once baby arrives. I wouldn't invite him to the hospital at all."


oh yes for sure picked a good one! wasn't planed and got me pregnant the first time we had sex and i was on birth control took it everyday the same time like clock work! he wants his dna test he can pay for it and it not even worth my time to bring him to court for child support ill get a big $18 a month from him since hes on welfar and thats all they give you not even enough for diapers or formula and if he comes to the hospital he will be removed as fast as he walks in!

Meaagaan McFaarlaane 17 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 13 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting kate & tilly:" You really really want a strong support person with you. My rule was if you weren't helping me you weren't staying."


that is my thinking why am i going to want someone there that just stresses me out id rather have the baby born in to a stress free envoronment with out someone yelling at me and getting me pissed off

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
Apr 19th '12
Quoting Meaagaan McFaarlaane:" oh yes for sure picked a good one! wasn't planed and got me pregnant the first time we had sex and ... [snip!] ... they give you not even enough for diapers or formula and if he comes to the hospital he will be removed as fast as he walks in!"


Hope he gets his act in gear.



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