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" I'm to broke" Vent! Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11

So my stupid soon to be ex-husabnd said he won't sign the divorce papers and cannot afford child support. I asked for one pack of diapers he said he was to "broke" to help out. I've asked for him to come winter clothes shopping for her we can split the cost.. again said he was "broke". So I log onto Facebook today and his new little "girlfriend" posted pictures of my daughter saying "new clothes". I've been working my ass off trying to support my child by myself! Turns out he's been saving up just bought an apartment and is refusing to let me even have the "new things" go home with me. I have her 70% of the time! So glad the divorce and child custody hearing is within the next few days! Sorry just had to vent to someone.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
Nov 13th '11

That's ridiculous!



I would save and print that out. You never know if it could come in handy for you. Go to court and get what your child deserves, screw him!

B) 1 child; San Diego, California 12049 posts
Nov 13th '11

I didn't think you needed him sign anything to divorce him.. When you get it handled just make sure to file for CS.

Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting ~Mama knows best!~:" That's ridiculous! I would save and print that out. You never know if it could come in handy for you. Go to court and get what your child deserves, screw him!"



I just spent 2,300 on a Lawyer. Better be getting a good outcome. haha

Lola Van Pelt 17 kids; Davenport, Iowa 311 posts
Nov 13th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Mama knows best!~:</b>" That's ridiculous! I would save and print that out. You never know if it could come in handy for you. Go to court and get what your child deserves, screw him!"</blockquote>




What she said...

Sock Lady 6 kids; 4 angel babies; Hell, ON, Canada 11758 posts
Nov 13th '11

That is ridiculous!



Is it possible the the new girlfriend bought the new clothes for your daughter?

Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting Cooter Cakes:" I didn't think you needed him sign anything to divorce him.. When you get it handled just make sure to file for CS."



Still have to go to court for Sole Custody.

Amber Christy 2 kids; Arkansas 607 posts
Nov 13th '11

Save all that stuff that he's posting on FB about all of his 'new' stuff. It sounds like he might be trying to screw you outta child support, so I'd hire a damn good lawyer to make sure he doesn't.

Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting Sock Lady:" That is ridiculous! Is it possible the the new girlfriend bought the new clothes for your daughter?"


She is also going through a divorce. She has no income she stays home and plays with their son all day.

moon. 2 kids; .., PA, United States 2613 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting *Sue*Bugs*Mommy*:" I just spent 2,300 on a Lawyer. Better be getting a good outcome. haha"


I'm sure you'll do good...sorry you're going through this. I'd be pissed!

Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting Amber Christy:" Save all that stuff that he's posting on FB about all of his 'new' stuff. It sounds like he might be trying to screw you outta child support, so I'd hire a damn good lawyer to make sure he doesn't."



He blocked me. All I asked for was 200.00 a month and he said that was impossible.

Amber Christy 2 kids; Arkansas 607 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting *Sue*Bugs*Mommy*:" He blocked me. All I asked for was 200.00 a month and he said that was impossible."


Just because he blocked you, doesn't mean he blocked everybody. Try going through one of your mutual friends or something. Also, he laid down with you to make that child. He can certainly afford 200+ a month, in my opinion.

Kerrilucko 1 child; Ontario 883 posts
Nov 13th '11

he's an idiot. The court's going to order him to pay anyway, would have made more sense to work something out with you one on one. Best of luck to you

Bug's Momma Due June 2; 3 kids; Salt Lake City, Utah 863 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting Amber Christy:" Just because he blocked you, doesn't mean he blocked everybody. Try going through one of your mutual ... [snip!] ... friends or something. Also, he laid down with you to make that child. He can certainly afford 200+ a month, in my opinion."


True. I may have to go through my little sister... He's supporting a whole new family now. Both him and his girlfriend havent even filed for divorce. I was the one who filed!

Moo-mmyஐ 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Central Valley, NY, United States 27164 posts
Nov 13th '11
Quoting Cooter Cakes:" I didn't think you needed him sign anything to divorce him.. When you get it handled just make sure to file for CS."


Why wouldn't he need to sign anything? Both parties need to sign the marriage license so it makes sense both need to sign the divorce papers. Especially with how much goes into them to make sure both parties are happy with it.