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"apparently you dont care that much about the health of your jess.and.company 2 kids; Georgia 1693 posts
Oct 31st '11

thats what my dad just said to me in a woicemail.
DD is taking breathing treatments right now. yesterday i had to work, so DD went to church with my mom and i sent the machine with them so she could do it while i was gone. i told my mom that i was gonna meet them after i got off at my grandpas. they knew i was gonna meet them there and get her. THEY left the machine at their house and told me to get it later. i told them we wouldnt be home cuz we were going to SO's grandmothers house a few towns away for a halloween thing. they said that if i was back by 6 i could just get it from them after church that night. we weren't back and my phone died. i just turned it on this morning and listened to my voicemail and thats what he said.
they're the ones who left it. they knew we were going to SO's grandmas thing right after. i even reminded them about it. yeah, maybe i shouldve left to go get it, but that wouldnt have been an issue if they hadnt have forgotten it in the first place!! but i'm the one who doesnt care about DD's health?



/end vent

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
Oct 31st '11

well... their actions were an honest mistake that they tried to make plans with you to fix, and you knowingly went without the machine.



your dads voicemail might be a little out of line, but his sentiment is probably accurate.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49166 posts
Oct 31st '11

I would be livid...... I was told i dont care about my unborn babys health if i couldnt make it in for my next apt in a week when i just started a job. I almost slapped me a nurse. They dr understood and he said im willing to work with you if you can try to work with me. I was able to get night shift so i can go in tomorrow morning.

jess.and.company 2 kids; Georgia 1693 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting Sam n' Addie ☼:" well... their actions were an honest mistake that they tried to make plans with you to fix, and you knowingly ... [snip!] ... went without the machine. your dads voicemail might be a little out of line, but his sentiment is probably accurate."


they knew i woudnt be able to get it. i told them and reminded them several times to bring it.
and because it was an "honest mistake" all this is put on me?
i dont think so. they didnt even do her breathing treatment. they went out to eat for lunch instead. thats why it was left at the house.
and they didnt try to make plans. He said "come by church to get it."
thats how he always is. if you dont do something his way then thats just it. theres no other options. i asked if i could just follow them back to the house real quick and get it and they said no.

jess.and.company 2 kids; Georgia 1693 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting Mama 2 Blake:" I would be livid...... I was told i dont care about my unborn babys health if i couldnt make it in for ... [snip!] ... im willing to work with you if you can try to work with me. I was able to get night shift so i can go in tomorrow morning. "


yeah, thats just crazy. i dont get how having a job is bad for anybody!!
i got it from my mom this morning before she went to work. it just pisses me off that they dont take any of the blame for anything.
yeah, i know i shouldve gone and grabbed it, but they shouldntve left it!

TheyRMyEverythings 1 child; North Carolina 5673 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting jeppica[ebfb]:" they knew i woudnt be able to get it. i told them and reminded them several times to bring it. and ... [snip!] ... it. theres no other options. i asked if i could just follow them back to the house real quick and get it and they said no. "


So they didn't do her breathing treatment either and you didn't find it necessary to go get the machine so that your child could have her treatment?

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting jeppica[ebfb]:" yeah, thats just crazy. i dont get how having a job is bad for anybody!! i got it from my mom this morning ... [snip!] ... that they dont take any of the blame for anything. yeah, i know i shouldve gone and grabbed it, but they shouldntve left it!"


So they didn't do the treatment... and you were so pissed off that they left it behind that you DIDN'T go get it and give your LO the needed medication? :?

Sounds pretty spiteful and is hurting your child.... Why didn't you go get it again?

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting jeppica[ebfb]:" they knew i woudnt be able to get it. i told them and reminded them several times to bring it. and ... [snip!] ... it. theres no other options. i asked if i could just follow them back to the house real quick and get it and they said no. "


they definitely should NOT decided to not give her the treatment when she needed it.



as her mother, you should have done whatever needed to be done to get the machine BACK though. There would be no "im not able to" in my book, no matter whose fault it was, or what a pain in the butt it would be to get it....... at the end of the day, shes my kid, my responsibility, and ill make sure she gets whatever she needs.

Waiting 4an angel Pennsylvania 4460 posts
Oct 31st '11

I would have skipped the Halloween party and picked up the machine...who cares who made the mistake...its your daughter that is suffering!

TheyRMyEverythings 1 child; North Carolina 5673 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting Sam n' Addie ☼:" they definitely should NOT decided to not give her the treatment when she needed it. as her mother, ... [snip!] ... would be to get it....... at the end of the day, shes my kid, my responsibility, and ill make sure she gets whatever she needs."


:!::!:

~AJLR~ 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Springfield, MO, United States 2240 posts
Oct 31st '11

Did no one read the part where she asked them if she could go over to the house and get it since she didn't make it to church and they said no? Or am I the only person fully reading any of this? Yes she could've left earlier to go pick it up but if she tried to put forth the effort to help her kid out and they told her no there's nothing she could've done. If her parents are really this spiteful if she'd have shown up at their house to pick up the breathing treatment off of dad's schedule they'd have called the cops on her. I've had a few friends who've gotten escourted of their parents property just for stupid stuff....like going home late from spending the night at a friends house...and their parents called the cops on them and told the kid to find somewhere else to live since they couldn't follow a damn schedule. The reason the kid was late was because the friend got food poisoning and they spent the night at the hospital instead. He ended up crashing on my couch for a few days after that.

She tried to go pick up the breathing treatment but because it wasn't on their schedule they told her no. It is not entirely her fault. Yes she could've left earlier to pick it up but she didn't and then tried to make up for it which they didn't allow. Sorry but if someone tells me I can't go somewhere even if I have stuff there I'm not gonna go there because I don't want the cops to get called on me by spiteful people. Just saying.

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting ~AJLR~:" Did no one read the part where she asked them if she could go over to the house and get it since she ... [snip!] ... if I have stuff there I'm not gonna go there because I don't want the cops to get called on me by spiteful people. Just saying."


It doesnt matter.



If HER child needed it, then even if they told her "no" to one time, its HER responsibility to get it at another time.



If she chooses not to, thats fine, but she shouldnt turn around and be mad at them about it.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting ~AJLR~:" Did no one read the part where she asked them if she could go over to the house and get it since she ... [snip!] ... if I have stuff there I'm not gonna go there because I don't want the cops to get called on me by spiteful people. Just saying."


Didn't HAVE to choose a halloween party over her daughters breathing treatment.

If my daughters med where someplace and the person said "pick them up by____" you bet your ass I would be there before the time, not at a party

Waiting 4an angel Pennsylvania 4460 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting ~AJLR~:" Did no one read the part where she asked them if she could go over to the house and get it since she ... [snip!] ... if I have stuff there I'm not gonna go there because I don't want the cops to get called on me by spiteful people. Just saying."


don't rely on your parents for anything and you wont have to worry about being escorted off their property....do you for real worry about this crap??



If your child needs meds, you get them!! her parents were not being spiteful IMO, they were taking care of her child, which is her responsibilty, they were doing her a FAVOR.......I 100% agree with her parents!

~AJLR~ 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Springfield, MO, United States 2240 posts
Oct 31st '11
Quoting Waiting 4an angel:" don't rely on your parents for anything and you wont have to worry about being escorted off their property....do ... [snip!] ... were taking care of her child, which is her responsibilty, they were doing her a FAVOR.......I 100% agree with her parents!"


I don't rely on my mother. And yes I worry about that kind of stuff because if I'm not the one taking care of my daughter then no one is. I'm all my daughter has so if something happens to me she has no where to go. And the cops in this town are known to just arrest people and keep them overnight rather than just escort them off the property like they're asked to.