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ღ Rawr ღ 1 child; New Jersey 768 posts
Sep 2nd '11

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C! 1 child; Zimbabwe 12742 posts
Sep 2nd '11

There isn't anything you can say or do that will make her feel better after losing her child. Just be there for her and be a good friend. Your friend and her little angel are in my thoughts.

Zil + 4 Due June 5; 3 kids; Juneau, AK, United States 10570 posts
Sep 2nd '11

Oh my god! I don't know what you could say. Just offer to be there and listen if she wants to talk about it. Poor thing. :(

user banned Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
Sep 2nd '11

How close are you to her?
Are you a friend that she would expect to come over? does she have SO?



I would call/text and let her know that you'd be there for her if she needs to talk, or to be with someone.

Adry&Lito's Mama (70) Due January 26 (boy); 17 kids; Comstock Park, Michigan 109 posts
Sep 2nd '11

I am so sorry to hear about your friend :( I had the exact same thing happen to my sister and all I could do was be her shoulder to cry on and tell her how much I loved her. I ended up doing a video for her of all of our friends and family and them telling her how much they loved her and we'll always be there for her.
The littlest things can make them happy. But honestly hun, you can never cheer her up. It was her child, something she carried in her body, it's always going to hurt no matter how much time passes. :(

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7200 posts
Sep 2nd '11
Quoting Lids ♥:" My friend lost her baby today a day shy of being one month old. She had severe blockage in her arteries. ... [snip!] ... down & lost her life. My friend is devastated! Does anyone know how or what can I say or do to comfort her in some way?"


So sorry to hear about your friend I would just try to be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. Honestly there is no way to cheer her up right now. Do things for her so she doesn't have to like make her and her family dinner.

Adry&Lito's Mama (70) Due January 26 (boy); 17 kids; Comstock Park, Michigan 109 posts
Sep 2nd '11
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" So sorry to hear about your friend I would just try to be there for her when she needs someone to talk ... [snip!] ... there is no way to cheer her up right now. Do things for her so she doesn't have to like make her and her family dinner."


perfect idea. :)