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Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 19th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" But you just basically told me you had a check up and everything was fine and baby was doing good, who told you this?? The baby canno't disapear in 4 days."</blockquote>



How do you think I feel?! I have never been more confused. I have no idea what the hell happened. You guys are acting like I am a troll. I swear on my life that I never faked my pregnancy. I obviously miscarried in June. I never really went to the doctor besides then, except a couple days ago. I didn't go to my hospital, I didnt trust them and I wasn't about to wait hours for shitty treatment. I went to another hospital that's around me. It's pretty reputable. I don't know who was wrong, which hospital. Who told me the wrong info, I don't know. It really is wrong to kick someone while they're down. To be honest, believe me or not, I don't really care. I know what happened, and it breaks my heart. If you don't wanna be supportive then just stop.

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" But you just basically told me ... [snip!] ... me or not, uI don't really care. I know what happened, and it breaks my heart. If you don't wanna be supportive then just stop."

All i'm asking is if you "miscarried" in june, why when I asked you 4 days ago did you say that the baby was doing well and he/she was okay and you were so relieved. Obviously you had a check up and saw a doctor, had an u/s at least heard the hb. Someone can't just look at you and be like "oh the baby is okay" You must have had an u/s or heard the hb unless you were lying about the baby being okay at all??? How did you find out the baby was okay?

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31152 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" I am seriously SO disappointed in y'all. Yeah, I'm faking my pregnancy. I've just faked it for three ... [snip!] ... six weeks so that's why they didn't find anything on the ultrasound. Why the f**k would I lie about that? Please tell me.."


I know you weren't making it up, seriously it is messed up everyone was thinking you were

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 19th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" All i'm asking is if you "miscarried" in june, why when I asked you 4 days ago did you say that the baby ... [snip!] ... had an u/s or heard the hb unless you were lying about the baby being okay at all??? How did you find out the baby was okay?"</blockquote>




Seriously, this is shit. The fact that I'm trying to justify myself to complete strangers is ridiculous. They took blood work and they said it looks ok. No ultrasound which is fucked up because blood works shows gestational age. I don't know what happened, I wish I did.

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting M.e.l.i.s.s.a:" I know you weren't making it up, seriously it is messed up everyone was thinking you were"


So can you tell me why she said her baby was doing okay and she was so relieved after she "thought she lost it" How else would she have known the baby was okay without seeing a doctor? The pregnancy test would still be positive from 4 days ago.

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 19th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting M.e.l.i.s.s.a:</b>" I know you weren't making it up, seriously it is messed up everyone was thinking you were"</blockquote>




Thank you. I appreciate it. I wish people weren't so insensitive. I lost my baby, like damn, show some compassion. I am really considering deleting this. I wanted to support the friends I made on here when they have their babies but screw it. This isn't worth it.

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 20th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" <blockquote><b>Quoting M.e.l.i.s.s.a:</b>" I know you weren't making it up, seriously ... [snip!] ... deleting this. I wanted to support the friends I made on here when they have their babies but screw it. This isn't worth it."


Why can't you answer my question. I'm asking you, why you told me 4 DAYS ago that the baby was doing okay and you were so relieved? Obviously you saw the doctor and had an u/s or heard the hb? Or did you just look in the mirror and say "the baby is okay" Who told you the baby was okay after you thought you had a miscarriage. I never said you're lying, but you're making NO SENSE.

Mandi 18 kids; New Mexico 16517 posts
Aug 20th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" All i'm asking is if you "miscarried" ... [snip!] ... looks ok. No ultrasound which is fucked up because blood works shows gestational age. I don't know what happened, I wish I did."


Blood work can be tricky. It's meant to show whether or not you were having a "threatened miscarriage" or if you were, in fact, miscarrying. If your blood work was normal, though, and showed your hCG levels rising appropriately, or at the correct level for your gestation, it can be assumed that you didn't miscarry. See a different doctor. Ignore all of the negativity, and you don't have to justify yourself. Just take care of yourself and get the medical attention you need.



And ladies... it's just as easy to offer a word of support as it is to attack someone's story. It doesn't affect any of us, either way. If she's lying, that's on her. It doesn't hurt a single one of us to offer words of support, encouragement, or condolences.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31152 posts
Aug 20th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" <blockquote><b>Quoting M.e.l.i.s.s.a:</b>" I know you weren't making it up, seriously ... [snip!] ... deleting this. I wanted to support the friends I made on here when they have their babies but screw it. This isn't worth it."


Well I am here for you girl if you do delete it atleast keep in touchh by email or fb or txt. People over analyze peoples situations which is kinda fucked up to say what or what didn't happen to you like they don't even know you on that level to begin judging you like that.

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 20th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" Why can't you answer my question. I'm asking you, why you told me 4 DAYS ago that the baby was doing ... [snip!] ... Who told you the baby was okay after you thought you had a miscarriage. I never said you're lying, but you're making NO SENSE."</blockquote>




Um maybe if you went up a few posts you would see that I did answer your question sweetie. I told you I took blood test.

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 20th '11
Quoting Mandi
Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 20th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" Why can't you answer my question. ... [snip!] ... Um maybe if you went up a few posts you would see that I did answer your question sweetie. I told you I took blood test."

So you figured the baby was okay just from a blood test?? And it was positive 4 days ago? Now its a negative?

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 20th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mandi

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 20th '11

Also pretty sure they would do more than just check your blood if you thought you were having a m/c they would do an u/s or ATLEAST check the hb. They wouldn't just send you home like that, m/c are very dangerous.

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 20th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:</b>" So you figured the baby was okay just from a blood test?? And it was positive 4 days ago? Now its a negative?"</blockquote>




You have problem, seriously. You're pissed at NOTHING. Get over it. Blood tests check your gestational age. I have no idea why it's negative. I had a nurse practitioner check me today and she found nothing. Not a damn thing. She thought it was ectopic.