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Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31152 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" your right, it does, but the whole story doesnt add up. she would still be testing positive now. either way, im sorry for the loss. "


I heard your HCG levels drop after like 3 months and she was supposed to be in her 4th month..idk I could be wrong but I think that is what I read

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
Aug 19th '11

im not gonna hog up the whole thread on this, as that would be rude, however coming from experience as a RN and working in a clinic that terminated pregnancies, HCG will stay in your system for up to a month, with the median of that being about 14-21 days. at 13-14 weeks gestation, it would most defiantly still be over 20 or 50 (depending on the test limits) and would test positive.



again, sorry for the loss.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" im not gonna hog up the whole thread on this, as that would be rude, however coming from experience as ... [snip!] ... most defiantly still be over 20 or 50 (depending on the test limits) and would test positive. again, sorry for the loss. "


But she probably WASN'T 13-14 weeks pregnant, if she had bleeding weeks ago. She could have lost her baby then, doctors missed it, and her levels would have had plenty of time to drop back to 0.



Point is, YOU don't know her situation. You don't know the gestation that her baby was lost. So don't call fake without facts.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Aug 19th '11

OP, I just skimmed through your last posts... are you sure that you didn't really miscarry when you had that bleeding in June, and the bleeding you had in July really was your period? That would explain the negative test, and nothing on the ultrasound. :(



Sorry dear.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31152 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Vindictive [eggplant]:" But she probably WASN'T 13-14 weeks pregnant, if she had bleeding weeks ago. She could have lost her ... [snip!] ... Point is, YOU don't know her situation. You don't know the gestation that her baby was lost. So don't call fake without facts."


:!::!::!:

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11

Cassandra i'm starting to wonder. I just asked you how the baby and you were doing 4 days ago and you basically said you had a check up or an u/s.



"posted 4 days ago
YES! Thank Godddd!! Baby is a-okay! Doing absolutely awesome.
I'm doing so well, I'm so happy that baby is ok.
& I can find out the sex soon!"



"Yes I was soooo depressed. It was the worst feeling in the world. I was totally certain but something just didn't feel right to me. Turns out I didn't lose her/him and it was all ok! "




You're basically stating here that you went and got checked by a doctor and everything was okay...what's going on here? :/

♥ Ljm 1 child; North Carolina 4105 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" Cassandra i'm starting to wonder. I just asked you how the baby and you were doing 4 days ago and you ... [snip!] ... " You're basically stating here that you went and got checked by a doctor and everything was okay...what's going on here? :/"


:!::(

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting ♥ Ljm:" :!::("


I'm so confused! :(

♥ Ljm 1 child; North Carolina 4105 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" I'm so confused! :("


Me too :? Just isn't adding up..

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting ♥ Ljm:" Me too :? Just isn't adding up.."

I agree, NOT COOL!!

♥ Ljm 1 child; North Carolina 4105 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" I agree, NOT COOL!!"


:!::(

meg♥g 1 child; Chicago, Illinois 315 posts
Aug 19th '11

I really hope this girl isnt lieing about all of this. I took time out of my day just to reassure this girl that she wasnt alone, and try to comfort her (which i NEVER do) but by reading her last post about her family forcing her to have an abortion, i have personally been through that years ago, and could relate. I love BG but who can you trust anymore?!

Pinkman 1 child; Seattle, WA, United States 7124 posts
Aug 19th '11

I am seriously SO disappointed in y'all. Yeah, I'm faking my pregnancy. I've just faked it for three months for shits and giggles. I would NEVER make something like this up. They think I miscarried in June, when I had bleeding and cramping. They said my gestational age was about six weeks so that's why they didn't find anything on the ultrasound. Why the f**k would I lie about that? Please tell me..

Mandi 18 kids; New Mexico 16517 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" I am seriously SO disappointed in y'all. Yeah, I'm faking my pregnancy. I've just faked it for three ... [snip!] ... six weeks so that's why they didn't find anything on the ultrasound. Why the f**k would I lie about that? Please tell me.."


All "faker call outs" aside, and giving you the benefit of the doubt - which there are a lot of odd holes in your story - I still want to reach out and say that you need to go in to a different doctor, have a test done, and another ultrasound. You need to be SURE that there's no baby. And assuming you've miscarried, you need to be sure you're healthy and healed. Those are basics in taking care of yourself.



I really hope you're not faking anything. People on here have faked far worse than the situation you've described... and nobody really understands why. But again, assuming you're not, I'm truly sorry for your loss, and for the emotional ringer you've been through.

Ashley; Kenley's Mommy! 1 child; Wisconsin 15117 posts
Aug 19th '11
Quoting c a s s a n d r a:" I am seriously SO disappointed in y'all. Yeah, I'm faking my pregnancy. I've just faked it for three ... [snip!] ... six weeks so that's why they didn't find anything on the ultrasound. Why the f**k would I lie about that? Please tell me.."

But you just basically told me you had a check up and everything was fine and baby was doing good, who told you this?? The baby canno't disapear in 4 days.