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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 29th '11

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Epic Duckface TTC since May 2015; 3 kids; 7 angel babies; Duluth, Georgia 6021 posts
Mar 29th '11

I'm sorry honey!



I know how you feel. I had a m/c last month and the day after I started bleeding my mil calls and tells SO that his sister is pregnant, after he had told her the day before that we were losing the baby. We got pregnant days apart. I was devastated.

xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 29th '11
Quoting Epic Duckface is Back!!:" I'm sorry honey! I know how you feel. I had a m/c last month and the day after I started bleeding my ... [snip!] ... is pregnant, after he had told her the day before that we were losing the baby. We got pregnant days apart. I was devastated."


im sorry for your m/c it's a horrible thing to go through..my so's sister is pregnant as well as my brothers partner so there's no getting away from it all im fine with the baby's my cousin just had a beautiful baby boy who i adore its just the whole pregnant belly thing that gets me right now

Content with 3 :) 3 kids; Ghh, 00, Palau 1132 posts
Mar 29th '11

Sorry for your loss that's a sucky situation to be in I don't blame you for being upset!



I'm in a similar position but the roles are reversed
My best friend found out she was pregnant in December sadly last week of January she Miscarried and few days after I found out I was Expecting confessing to her was the hardest thing I have done she has no ideas of how far or dates But I still feel extremely guilty
Now its been over 2 months and she still don't talk to me anymore
Crazy to know bad timing screwed up a friendship whats worse is my SO works for her partner on the Farm that her partner manages and now he takes it out on my partner treating him like shit etc
We pretty much at breaking point that we don't know whether to leave or stay

xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 29th '11
Quoting Bump2Bee #3:" Sorry for your loss that's a sucky situation to be in I don't blame you for being upset! I'm in a similar ... [snip!] ... it out on my partner treating him like shit etc We pretty much at breaking point that we don't know whether to leave or stay"


that must be horrible for you i would never be like that its not your fault at all!! im sure they will come round and realise that its not your fault someday you did the best thing telling them i would been pissed if my brother didnt tell me because i lost my baby i just hate it been thrown in my face by her i think she does it on purpose most of the time

Content with 3 :) 3 kids; Ghh, 00, Palau 1132 posts
Mar 29th '11
Quoting Katie Bone:" that must be horrible for you i would never be like that its not your fault at all!! im sure they will ... [snip!] ... tell me because i lost my baby i just hate it been thrown in my face by her i think she does it on purpose most of the time "


I don't think its on what shes doing to you that's disgusting, Its a shame not all people can relate and just back off give you time to heal and then ask what you wanted to know!
That's what I planned to do with my friend was just keep talking as normal like I wasn't pregnant and wait for her to ask me questions when she was ready,
I don't get the rubbing in the face thing completely unnecessary Its a hard thing to go through or even to support a person that's going through it,
I think its one of them cases where you put yourself in the others situation and look at what you would expect from others, Like her putting herself in your situation



Chin up Mumma I wish you all the best and Baby dust with a truck load of sticky dust behind it!
IF its any help I didn't get a BFP til 8 days late, I hope your moment comes real soon

My 2 Boys! 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Tilton, NH, United States 245 posts
Mar 29th '11

I'm sorry for your loss, I had a miscarriage in October, I was due 2 weeks after a co-worker who works besides me everyday... and my SIL got pregnant in January. Having a miscarriage is a very emotional thing but you can't let your feelings ruin someone else joy...they shouldnt rub it in your face but they shouldn't have to hide their excitement because of what happened to you. I made sure both my co-worker and my SIL knew that nothing they did would upset me, you have to think of how you would feel if you were in the opposite position,

**2Lynns8707*ES* 2 kids; Autryville, NC, United States 3598 posts
Mar 29th '11

awww... i'm sorry mama... ooooh it just pisses me off when people don't have consideration, i had issues taking time getting pregnant this last time, and our SIL who lives with his parents got pregnant.. it pissed me off! she was all happy about it, and they couldn't even afford diapers for the one they had already (who mind you at the time was only 4months old), his mom buys all the food in the house and there diapers and she's (his mom) the only one who was working at the time.... so yea it royally pisses me of when people flaunt there pregnancy knowing someone has had issues getting there own bundle of joy....



sorry if i rambled... didn't mean to

xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 30th '11
Quoting Bump2Bee #3:" I don't think its on what shes doing to you that's disgusting, Its a shame not all people can relate ... [snip!] ... a truck load of sticky dust behind it! IF its any help I didn't get a BFP til 8 days late, I hope your moment comes real soon"


thank you and i hope everything turns out well with your friend soon! :)

xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 30th '11
Quoting Love my little Devin:" I'm sorry for your loss, I had a miscarriage in October, I was due 2 weeks after a co-worker who works ... [snip!] ... my SIL knew that nothing they did would upset me, you have to think of how you would feel if you were in the opposite position,"


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xx katie-lou xx 34 kids; Halifax, United Kingdom 1748 posts
Mar 30th '11
Quoting **2Lynns8707*ES*:" awww... i'm sorry mama... ooooh it just pisses me off when people don't have consideration, i had issues ... [snip!] ... there pregnancy knowing someone has had issues getting there own bundle of joy.... sorry if i rambled... didn't mean to"


i know exactly how you feel mama i feel exactly the same about some people in my life who cant afford kids but can pop them out like there's no tomorrow pisses me off too