So I had a miscarriage on Sept. 17th and mourn the loss of my daughter EVERY SINGLE day, cry, think about her ALL the time. I have this friend, who, let's call her Stupid, who uses abortions and the Plan B pill as contraception. She's probably on her 6th abortion (I lost count and she only knows I know about 1 or 2 of them) which she had today, without even taking time to think about the baby or keeping he/she. She didn't get her period in awhile, went to the hospital for pains the 2 months ago and she wasn't pregnant, must have gotten pregnant the middle or end of Sept (same time I had my miscarriage that devestated me) and took a test last night and it was positive. She knows she has always been fertile and dates the biggest losers who have older "kids", baby mama drama, no cars, stupid or no jobs, no driver's licenses, no home, no money, etc., when she can completely take care of herself living on her own, good job, etc. She ALWAYS has unprotected sex, ALWAYS, and then wonders how she got pregnant, and aborts them. It's to the point where it doesn't even phase her anymore. She was two months along. She told our mutual friend to make sure I don't find out b/c she knows how extremely strong I am against abortions but my friend knew that if I just happened to find out when we were altogether, I'd punch her in the mouth. I'm a really nice person but abortion is one thing you just can't cross me with. How can you do that to a living baby? The baby had a heartbeat and I'm pretty sure the doctor listened to the heartbeat and all before the procedure, and she still did it. Later on she says she feels bad and didn't give herself enough time to think about it...I am so sick to my stomach it's ridiculous. She could have given the baby up for adoption to someone who really wanted to be a parent, since she didn't have an attachment to the baby anyway.
Sorry, had to vent. :evil:
Eh. her vagina she can do what she wants.
if she kept these babies it wouldn't affect your life. and I'm positive you wouldn't be paying to support them.
would she make a good parent???
if she is acting this its probably better for her not to bring a baby into the world eh?
It wasn't a living baby.
And if you punch her in the mouth for having an abortion, you deserve to have your uterus cut out.
Her not having abortions is not going to bring your child back.
You are putting your greif in the wrong place.
I agree with you. Although, for this to be a website for mothers and babies and women who love children, a lot of these women will disagree with you.
Maybe if this girl doesn't want kids, which apparently she doesn't since she aborts all of them, maybe she should see about getting the Mirena or something. I had it for 3 years and never got pregnant.
Seriously though, her 6th abortion? So let's all have sex and not use protection, we can abort anyways! Come on now, I can understand one slip but using abortiong as a contraception is absolutely sick. I understand OP.
Clearly if you find her that irresponsible, then abortion is probably the best thing for her and a fetus. I mean, if she's having that much unprotected sex, lord knows what she could have.
I'm sorry that you lost a little one mama, but what she does has no effect on that. :/ And you shouldn't let her decisions bring you down. Cut off contact with her.
As someone who has mc and is infertile I find it hard to believe anyone would abort. With that being said, in the end its her body and it sounds like she would be a shitty mom.
If it bothers you, cut ties with her. You can choose your friends.
Btw, I'm sorry for your loss <3
You're a f**king c**t...