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snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Sep 2nd '12

uh, getting annoyed with this guy I'm seeing. I don't understand him, or know how to read him at all! when I'm with him, or talk to him, things are great. But... he's almost impossible to get ahold of. Rarely responds to texts. The one day I was out and ignored my phone.. had a me day.. he got all upset about me not responding... told me how much he likes hearing from me. Well... then f**king respond! I hate texting multiple times... I can't have a one way conversation. I backe3d off thinking I was looking like a clingy gf... but then he told me he's used to more attention from someone he's dating.



um.. yea. So am I! We're both VERY busy people... but.. it's nice to stay connnectd via text. Or... when you text.. if you're headed out, or to the gym etc.. let me know so I'm not sitting waiting for a response.

Oneshortmama 2 kids; Lexington, Tennessee 3808 posts
Sep 3rd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf:</b>" That's not good either. :?"</blockquote>




Well after spending time with my family today I go home and my 3 yo falls and possibly has broke her foot my husband blew up on me then started saying he was goin to kill himself even went so far as to pull the gun out and load it I called cops and now he's goin to get impatient care. He had some kind of mental breakdown tonight bc he keeps thing bottles up inside and he couldn't handle it anymore . It's a big relief now I know he can't harm himself or anyone else

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Sep 3rd '12
Quoting Brooklyn's momma(BOSM):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf:</b>" That's not good either. :?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... thing bottles up inside and he couldn't handle it anymore . It's a big relief now I know he can't harm himself or anyone else"


Yeah that's definitely better. Just be careful.

Jillian Lindsey 2 kids; Mosheim, Tennessee 2354 posts
Sep 3rd '12
Quoting Alfies Mama:" My sister told me to keep the receipts too. I'm going too. I don't even have a job right now because ... [snip!] ... to pay rent because we were living in the house his dad owned. I'm looking for a job so I can save up and move out on my own."

its hard but you cando it also look at all ofyour resources slvation army was a life save when i was a kid they gave us (me and my lil bro) each 2 outfits a backpack and shoes for free

Jillian Lindsey 2 kids; Mosheim, Tennessee 2354 posts
Sep 3rd '12
Quoting M ♥ Lo:" Yeah, I'm with you on this. My ex just got to walk away. He says he wont/doesnt want to pay child support ... [snip!] ... support. Hes dodging the CS office and he quit his job thinkin' when we go to court at the end of Sept. hes gonna get off."

some women do use the CS for themselves im not saying you do because im sure you dont ! but there are women who do and men like to claim that so they have an excuse get child support your daughter needs it i actually sold a couple gift cards like a bath and body works one soo i could get diapers! keep all of your reciepts to show them everything youve bought and he wont have anything because he wont help you btw paying rent and electric and gas is for your daughter not just you she needs a roof over her head lights and air/heat and a ride to her doctors and everything he sounds like a cheap SOB who doesnt care about his child

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
Sep 3rd '12
Quoting Jillian Lindsey:" some women do use the CS for themselves im not saying you do because im sure you dont ! but there are ... [snip!] ... head lights and air/heat and a ride to her doctors and everything he sounds like a cheap SOB who doesnt care about his child"

Oh, I get the whole some women use it for themselves.. my boyfriends ex wife is like that. she refuses to work so my boyfriend pays $800 a month for one kid. She has 3 other kids.. His son gets all the hand-me downs from her other son and he always looks like a homeless kid getting of the plane. one time he had shoes from his brother. He no lie, looked like a clown. they were like 3 sizes too big.
BUT, my boyfriend has absolutely no problem with it. I think I'm more mad about it then him. Shes just soo selfish. Shed rather live with no money then work because she doesnt want it to be lowered.
I just dont get it, ALL my money besides rent and stuff goes to my daughter.
Hes just selfish.

The Icebox {MBRD} 17 kids; New Mexico 18574 posts
Sep 3rd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" some women do use the CS for themselves im not saying you do because im sure you dont ! but there are ... [snip!] ... head lights and air/heat and a ride to her doctors and everything he sounds like a cheap SOB who doesnt care about his child"</blockquote>



As long as the kid is being taken care of it shouldnt matter what the cs is being used on. For me its all one big pot

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
Sep 3rd '12
Quoting The Icebox {MBRD}:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" some women do use the CS for themselves ... [snip!] ... As long as the kid is being take
n care of it shouldnt matter what the cs is being used on. For me its all one big pot"

well, his son doesnt have glasses because his sister step on them and he NEEDS them for school, but she wont pay the $80 to pay for them.
He also got off the plane last time in his brother shoes 3 sizes too big, looking like a clown.



Thats the problem. He DOESNT get what he needs and thats what bothers me.. I know it goes to food/rent/utilities and my boyfriend is happy to pay it, but his son should be taken care of not her other children first.

Jillian Lindsey 2 kids; Mosheim, Tennessee 2354 posts
Sep 4th '12
Quoting M ♥ Lo:" well, his son doesnt have glasses because his sister step on them and he NEEDS them for school, but she ... [snip!] ... to food/rent/utilities and my boyfriend is happy to pay it, but his son should be taken care of not her other children first."

thats ridiculous hes suposed to pay CS for his son not the other kids

SuperOvulator;♥ ;] Due August 19; 2 kids; North Carolina 10020 posts
Sep 6th '12

Need advice on whether I should file harrassment charges on my BD or not :?



He constantly texts me and calls me, right now, he's done called me 17 times in a row, and that's only tonight. Some nights it'll get up to 80+ in a row.



He's always telling me how much of a "big mistake" I'm making by ignoring him, telling him that me not answering his texts is considered keeping the twins from him (I've told him multiple times he can come see them WHENEVER), he claims he wants to talk to the twins on the phone (they're two) but once I answer the phone he NEVER says anything about the twins. I'm going to talk to a lawyer on monday, but this is just ridiculous.



Only thing is, if I go file a harrassment report, they'll send out a warrant for his arrest. I don't know if that's going to extreme, but I just really want him to stop bugging me. The only time he needs to talk to me is to set up a time/weekend to come down and visit with the twins.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Sep 6th '12
Quoting SuperOvulator;♥ ;]:" Need advice on whether I should file harrassment charges on my BD or not :? He constantly texts me and ... [snip!] ... him to stop bugging me. The only time he needs to talk to me is to set up a time/weekend to come down and visit with the twins."


Have you said he can see the twins whenever he wants in the form of text? It's always good to have these things in black and white for the courts. Also, if you send him a text saying "Please cease all further contact with me that is not regarding setting up a time to come see the twins. If you do not, I will consider this harassment and contact the authorities."



Then you're covered legally in case this crap continues. And I agree it's kind of extreme to have him arrested, but it's also extreme that he's texting you 80+ times a day.

SuperOvulator;♥ ;] Due August 19; 2 kids; North Carolina 10020 posts
Sep 6th '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf:" Have you said he can see the twins whenever he wants in the form of text? It's always good to have these ... [snip!] ... continues. And I agree it's kind of extreme to have him arrested, but it's also extreme that he's texting you 80+ times a day."



I have texted him something along the lines of that. It's somewhere in all of the texts that he sends me, I have an iPhone, so I'd have to go back and dig through all of the text messages that he has sent me since then to find it.



I mean, I'd feel bad about getting a warrant for his arrest, but at the same time, if I don't do anything about it, it's just going to continue.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Sep 6th '12
Quoting SuperOvulator;♥ ;]:" I have texted him something along the lines of that. It's somewhere in all of the texts that he sends ... [snip!] ... bad about getting a warrant for his arrest, but at the same time, if I don't do anything about it, it's just going to continue."


Yeah, I personally would call. And not even trying to be a d**k and get him arrested. Just so that he stops since nothing else seems to be working.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Sep 6th '12

where did everyone go? slow in here again!

Breanna Nicole Morgan Due March 26 (girl); Chandler, Arizona 1 posts
Sep 24th '12

I will be a single mom in 27 weeks or so, but I just don't know how I will be able to deal. I mean I'm sure I can do it, it's just that I have the desire to have a two-parented family instead of a single. It makes me pretty sad now when I think about it and I honestly think it's causing me a lot of unnecessary stress and anxiety. I need advice on how to cope. Any suggestions?? Thanks in advance ladies!!