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Feels so wrong both ways ollysmama♡ 1 child; United States 7 posts
Feb 8th

So I never got the money early .. from previous thread. Barely getting it this weekend so my appoitment is next week and all be about 15 weeks. I don’t feel a bond but I feel numb most days I think about it but rn I saw a video of moms giving birth and it hurts my heart . And I got into it with my kids dad because he was saying how I complain a lot and I said well I feel sick all day, my body is tired from the pregnancy and he said well your killing your baby anyways why tf does it matter. And it just hurts cause I was thinking real positive about it , how my kids and I can have a better life . I know if I keep it I’m going to be stuck and still struggling more . I just hate today and my emotions 

The Original Bob 4 kids; 4 angel babies; <3, CA, United States 37248 posts
Feb 9th

I'm sorry hun, when my friend was contemplating abortion with her 4th child. She had a really difficult time. Her and her SO had a rule that if she were to get an abortion than later on they can't blame one another or say anything about killing a baby. The fact that your kids dad is acting like that makes me think it's something he's gonna hold over your head and it's going to break you two up eventually, probably make you hate him. She couldn't imagine having an abortion but she couldn't imagine keeping it either. She was pushing more for abortion. They ended up deciding to keep it just cause an abortion would have torn their relationship apart and her heart, because she was pro life before, she knew it would tear her apart even though she didn't want another baby. Her SO's family also said they would help as much as they could. So she thought she could do it. It's a very difficult decision to get an abortion or have another baby, you probably won't feel right either way. You just have to do what is right for you and your family and your feelings. Because you are the one that's going to have to live with that decision. Hugs. 

bia. ., ., Portugal 102369 posts
Feb 10th

I'm sorry you're dealing with all this, your kids father is a d**k for saying that, I hope things get better whatever the outcome.

bia. ., ., Portugal 102369 posts
Feb 10th

Quoting The Original Bob:
I'm sorry hun, when my friend was contemplating abortion with her 4th child. She had a really difficult time. Her and her SO had a rule that if she were to get an abortion than later on they can't blame one another or say anything about killing a baby. The fact that your kids dad is acting like that makes me think it's something he's gonna hold over your head and it's going to break you two up eventually, probably make you hate him. She couldn't imagine having an abortion but she couldn't imagine keeping it either. She was pushing more for abortion. They ended up deciding to keep it just cause an abortion would have torn their relationship apart and her heart, because she was pro life before, she knew it would tear her apart even though she didn't want another baby. Her SO's family also said they would help as much as they could. So she thought she could do it. It's a very difficult decision to get an abortion or have another baby, you probably won't feel right either way. You just have to do what is right for you and your family and your feelings. Because you are the one that's going to have to live with that decision. Hugs. 


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