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Someone meliaaa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8339 posts
Jan 13th

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bia. ., ., Portugal 102457 posts
Jan 13th

Would I?? Hell no. Esp with you having kids. Let him go,  he seems pushy and that's gross. Bye boy.


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...B... 4 kids; 3 angel babies; .., .., Christmas Island 1286 posts
Jan 13th

Quoting bia.:
Would I?? Hell no. Esp with you having kids. Let him go,  he seems pushy and that's gross. Bye boy.


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This! 

tinana+3 3 kids; Orlando, FL, Virgin Islands 47492 posts
Jan 13th

Quoting bia.:
Would I?? Hell no. Esp with you having kids. Let him go,  he seems pushy and that's gross. Bye boy.


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Huge red flags if he’s giving you ultimatums after even just a casual relationship. It will NOT get better. Please don’t move in with him. 

Cat.Woman. 2 kids; Gotham City, PA, United States 9556 posts
Jan 13th

Quoting bia.:
Would I?? Hell no. Esp with you having kids. Let him go,  he seems pushy and that's gross. Bye boy.


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Agreed! 
Thats weird. Judging by your post, you can seem uncomfortable with the idea 

marmarissa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ottawa, ON, Canada 8200 posts
Jan 13th

Quoting bia.:
Would I?? Hell no. Esp with you having kids. Let him go,  he seems pushy and that's gross. Bye boy.


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Exclamation agree with this.  You and I are in the same boat (living with BD) and f**k all that.  No way would I move in with someine who threatened to dump me bevause I'm not ready.

mommy to josue 1 child; Texas 77 posts
Jan 13th

Quoting meliaaa:
If someone started pressuring you to move in after a few months of "dating" (more like talking, but not seeing anyone else, just not officially dating) - would you try it?

The main reason behind the pressure is that you still live with the father of your children, but you aren't currently together; but also because he doesn't like being single, and admits to be co-dependent.

At first it seemed flattering and exciting, but now he's saying if I don't move in this weekend he's done with me. I don't think I'm ready? Mainly because the "SO" and I are on an official break to try and figure out if we are happier single, and I'm not 100% sure I'm ready to walk away (I feel like I should but its hard).

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That sounds like red flags everywhere. If hes acting like that now i can just imagine when you move in. Let him leave your kids don't need to be around someone like that

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Virgin Islands 9636 posts
Jan 13th

What everyone else said. You’ve only been talking/seeing this guy for a few months and he wants to move in knowing that your children’s father is still living there?! Nah, get rid of him and don’t look back.. he sounds weird af. Honestly, I would sort things out with your children’s father. Still date if you want but before getting into a serious relationship/moving in with someone, I’d make sure you’re completely done with you’re children father and he is living somewhere else.