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Painful sex. Whitney is TTC❤️ TTC since Oct 2017; Beauty, KY, United States 147 posts
Mar 20th

I probably shouldn't be posting this here but I need help. 

I met someone new, and we just had sex for the first time 2 days ago. 

I was so turned on, we forplayed, then right as we got into position to have sex, he went soft. It happens, I know. I think he was putting too much pressure on himself. 

Anyway. 15 minutes later, he was hard again so we tried again. He stayed hard. We had sex. But it was the most painful sex I've ever had. And it's not like he has a big p***s. I don't know what the problem is. 

Was i dry at that point and that's why it hurt so bad? I hope so. I really like this guy and she's such a sweetheart, I don't want our sex to be painful! 

Drew90 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Hodgdon, ME, United States 7230 posts
Mar 20th

If it was due to dryness you'd know for sure. When you're dry it causing a lot of pulling on the skin during sex.  

✩ Silver 100335 posts
Mar 20th

Idk, can't really answer a question like that because it could be a number of things but the only thing I could think of is that you have a yeast infection that you don't know about. Anything else, aside from an STD, I would think you would know. 

fluffyruffruff Due November 29 (boy); 4 kids; United States 4541 posts
Mar 20th

Dryness wouldve been obvious to both of you... So if thats a question, it probably wasnt it.

deadpool United States 175 posts
Mar 20th

Could of been the shape of his d**k hitting it wrong. Try another position. Like you be on top. Or made hes just really bad at it. 

Whitney is TTC❤️ TTC since Oct 2017; Beauty, KY, United States 147 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting ✩ ℒioȵεsȿ:
Idk, can't really answer a question like that because it could be a number of things but the only thing I could think of is that you have a yeast infection that you don't know about. Anything else, aside from an STD, I would think you would know. 


He and I both were just checked for STDs so it's not that. I think it was dryness. It hurt like hell when he was pushing in, but not sliding out? Idk. But it's probably be dryness 

✩ Silver 100335 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting w h i t n e y:

He and I both were just checked for STDs so it's not that. I think it was dryness. It hurt like hell when he was pushing in, but not sliding out? Idk. But it's probably be dryness 


Was this your first time or..???

lamb_nodules 2 kids; United Kingdom 3692 posts
Mar 20th

What kind of pain was it?

Whitney is TTC❤️ TTC since Oct 2017; Beauty, KY, United States 147 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting ✩ ℒioȵεsȿ:

Was this your first time or..???


First time with him... but not in general

lamb_nodules 2 kids; United Kingdom 3692 posts
Mar 20th

Double post. 

Whitney is TTC❤️ TTC since Oct 2017; Beauty, KY, United States 147 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting lamb_nodules:
What kind of pain was it?


Almost maybe tearing painful? Just at the base of my vagina when he'd push in

lamb_nodules 2 kids; United Kingdom 3692 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting w h i t n e y:

Almost maybe tearing painful? Just at the base of my vagina when he'd push in


I mean, if you hadn't had sex for awhile, maybe you're just tighter than previously? I know I get that feeling after not having sex for awhile. 

ElleCole+triplets 5 kids; 3 angel babies; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 33256 posts
Mar 20th

If you hadn't had sex in awhile in can be painful the first few times! Always happens to me after having a baby 

Drew90 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Hodgdon, ME, United States 7230 posts
Mar 20th

Quoting lamb_nodules:

I mean, if you hadn't had sex for awhile, maybe you're just tighter than previously? I know I get that feeling after not having sex for awhile. 


Same here!  Only takes about a month for me