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Sex and pregnancy Supermommy08 1 child; 2 angel babies; United States 439 posts
Mar 17th

So since I got pregnant, our sex life hasn't been as frequent... we maybe have sex once a week... which makes me sad. But im so tired at night after work that I fall asleep. When does energy come back? Im 20 weeks... thought I would have it back already... and im worrying about my relationship now

Drew90 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Hodgdon, ME, United States 6932 posts
Mar 17th

Sometimes it doesn't.  I was exhausted all throughout my second pregnancy.  And our sex life still hasn't recovered over a year later lol 

✩ ℒioȵεsȿ 98876 posts
status Mar 17th

37 weeks here and mine hasn't come back. I give in a lot just for him but I'm definitely not that into it right now. 

Yokoshimalove 2 kids; United States 479 posts
Mar 17th

I didn't get my drive back til 30 weeks and it was still a hit and miss

Supermommy08 1 child; 2 angel babies; United States 439 posts
Mar 17th

I just don't want him to become unhappy. I usually give in even if im tired too. Last night I was going to initiate but then he was exhausted and fell asleep lol. I miss our time before the pregnancy

✴No Apologies {18w} Due October 23 (girl); Miami, FL, United States 3954 posts
Mar 17th

I went through that my last pregnancy. I was actually kind of repulsed by it. Which is weird for me. This pregnancy I want it all the time and I'm almost 9 weeks.

Supermommy08 1 child; 2 angel babies; United States 439 posts
Mar 17th

I'm having this fear he's gonna want to leave me or something since its not as frequent. I'm so emotional this pregnancy

OldSoulBeauty Due June 3 (boy); 2 kids; DipityDooBittyBopBop, WA, United States 4681 posts
Mar 17th

My exhaustion has remained constant. There may be a day or two where I feel energetic, but then back to la la land. 

MommyBearTo4 Due August 6; 3 kids; Fenton, MO, United States 256 posts
Mar 17th

Quoting Supermommy08:
I just don't want him to become unhappy. I usually give in even if im tired too. Last night I was going to initiate but then he was exhausted and fell asleep lol. I miss our time before the pregnancy


Girl me too! I found I have to have sex after work in the middle of the day or it won't happen. I am too tired at night I cannot even force it. My husband doesn't mind tho as long as he is getting it. We are about 2 times a week maybe 3 on a good one. Like I said tho, has to be right after work or it isn't happening. Hubs knows too lol! He is waiting after my shower haha!!

bia. 3 kids; ., ., Portugal 101797 posts
Mar 17th

Quoting Supermommy08:
I'm having this fear he's gonna want to leave me or something since its not as frequent. I'm so emotional this pregnancy


Well, he's not much of a man if he leaves you over no sex....he has hands, yes? Shy toughen up boy.

I hated sex with my DD3, hardly ever had it, even now that she's 19 months I hate it, I have no sex drive at all, it's been like 2 months, he still hangs around.  

jess_Hunter 1 child; California 1676 posts
Mar 18th

Well girl you may need to spice things up, do different things  that you did not do before so that you could have sex more often without feeling tired, what matters is that you want it. Try to do it in different places of the house like the shower, sofa, just on the floor and other places. You can also find yourself something sexy to wear, watch pregnant p**n together, don't do it late at night, early morning or afternoon may work better. I recommend you to initiate because he may be afraid to do it since he does not know how you are feeling because you are pregnant. Actually pregnancy is a great for intimacy, it is just matter of talking a lot and finding the ways that motivate both to enjoy it