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Dec 22nd '13

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Mad Hatter 1 child; ........, .., United States 17350 posts
Dec 22nd '13

If I were in your situation, yes I would abort. But good luck to you in whatever you decide Giselle. I wish you the best.

Leah+2 2 kids; Texas 5797 posts
Dec 22nd '13

That decision is completely up to you. Nobody on here, nor your ex husband, can make it for you. Good luck!

Elle&Cole⛄️ TTC since Oct 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 32449 posts
Dec 22nd '13

It's up to you. Why didn't you just use a condom with you slept with the the man?

Minions Mommy 3 kids; Go Hawks, IA, United States 2680 posts
Dec 22nd '13

You need to do what you feel you can live with. I wish you the best of luck in what you decide.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Dec 22nd '13

I can only tell you, that if I were in your exact situation, I would abort.

Having another child would severely impact your ability to care for the children you already have.

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2759 posts
Dec 22nd '13

Honestly, I've been in a tough spot like this. I was 9-10 wks when I had my abortion. Different details, but in the end, the choice was hard. I did it because it was the big girl thing to do, and right for my kids, and for me. So if I were in your shoes, I probably would.

With that said, you know you're going to get some rude ass shit said here. I'm not sure BG is the right place to seek this advice, only because this is a huge deal and I suspect that some people will just be juvenile about it. Take the replies with a grain of salt and do your best, Hun.... Whatever that is. I do think considering your options...even open adoption...is wise. Good luck, Giselle. Mean that.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
Dec 22nd '13

thank you ladies. i have to make my decision very fast but i just hope its the right decision..

C ♥ 1 child; Florida 1208 posts
Dec 22nd '13

The decision is up to you and only you. But yes, If I was in your same situation I would terminate the pregnancy.



A baby doesn't deserve to be brought into that mess, and you need to use all your time and energy on the children you have that are already in this world, and make things better for them and yourself.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
Dec 22nd '13

i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..

Super Mommy! 4 kids; ☺, CA, United States 16068 posts
Dec 22nd '13

If I were in your exact situation, yes, I would.

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2759 posts
Dec 22nd '13

Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ [+1]:
i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..



I think that's a reasonable thought. You've made mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you cant turn things around. Realistically, another baby will just make it more difficult, but it's a decision you alone can make. Have you ever had an abortion or considered one before?

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2759 posts
Dec 22nd '13

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user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
Dec 22nd '13

I would abort also.

Crunchy Oat 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Houston, TX, United States 2829 posts
Dec 22nd '13

You were just in the TTC threads talking about how you wanted another baby, then you talked about being in love with another man... seems to me you should have kept your legs closed since you couldn't figure it out. It's not fair to that baby you conceived, or any of your other kids for that matter. Personally, I call troll. It seems like the only threads you post are to stir up drama. At least I hope you are a troll... if not, those poor poor kids... sheesh Shy