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Idk what to think... *DON'T QUOTE* Stevie Renae 2 kids; North Carolina 11857 posts
Sep 8th '13

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user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 8th '13

It shouldn't be complicated. If it is, it's probably not right.

Stevie Renae 2 kids; North Carolina 11857 posts
Sep 8th '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" It shouldn't be complicated. If it is, it's probably not right."

that's the thing though it's not complicated as you would say it's just I'm scared, we have so much in common and get along so well and never get tired of each other so I'm wondering what will the downfall be? We haven't even had a single argument.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
Sep 8th '13

You can't go through a relationship worrying about what is going to ruin it. Nobody wants to get hurt. But you have to be willing to take a chance and see where things end up.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Sep 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stevie Renae

Mandhee Dhandapani 2 kids; Houston, Texas 574 posts
Sep 8th '13

Well that's good if you haven't argued ..I was in a 2 yr relationship before my husband first love etc...an well it went downhill after 1 yr 6 months...abuse negativity etc....left him and about a a month later met my husband ...we never argued an well we hit it off great from the first time we met....8 months later we married after he moved from N.Y. and we had our daughter in Dec. .....
The point is even though I was in a bad relationship I never let it get to me ....I always thought the moment I started being a "B" and closed my self off the right person would come along and I'd ruin it....just because one guy is like that not all of them are ....just take things slow an see were it goes ...there are plenty of fish in the sea

Nicola. 2 kids; Manton, MI, United States 13398 posts
Sep 8th '13

As far as the age goes, it really doesn't matter. As long as you are both on the same page.



It isn't always easy to stop worrying but you will have to find a way to get over that if any relationship is going to work. Maybe you are rushing into it too much. Yo might need more time to process and get over your last relationship.

that angry girl. Due January 27; 2 kids; rville, MI, United States 305 posts
Sep 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Executive Transvestite:</b>" You can't go through a relationship worrying about what is going to ruin it. Nobody wants to get hurt. But you have to be willing to take a chance and see where things end up."</blockquote>




This.

Stevie Renae 2 kids; North Carolina 11857 posts
Sep 9th '13
Quoting Nicola.:" As far as the age goes, it really doesn't matter. As long as you are both on the same page. It isn't ... [snip!] ... going to work. Maybe you are rushing into it too much. Yo might need more time to process and get over your last relationship."

im over my last relationship completely, I know that for a fact, I'm just scared to get done wrong like the last one. I guess I have trust issues.

Nicola. 2 kids; Manton, MI, United States 13398 posts
Sep 9th '13
Quoting Stevie Renae
Stevie Renae 2 kids; North Carolina 11857 posts
Sep 10th '13
Quoting Nicola.:" That is what I mean. You still have issues stemming from your last relationship. They can be hard to ... [snip!] ... trust issues could ruin it. No matter how hard he tries, he can't make you trust him because he isn't the problem, your ex is."

I trust him completely though I'm just worried I won't be good enough or something over being left by my ex husband.

Rad Tech Chick 1 child; Washington 7231 posts
Sep 13th '13

The last 2 guys I've seen have been younger. It bothered me at first but then I reaized it really doesn't matter if they are mature