Quoting castaway:" I don't like telling anyone how they should feel, but what the hell did they expect? They implanted ... [snip!] ... one embryo, which can easily result in more than one child. I don't feel sorry for their 'ruined family'..... THEY did that."
<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥TwinsRock♥:</b>" I was not happy when I find out I was pregnant with twins. I was terrified and overwhelmed. I would cry ... [snip!] ... of them being born was absolute hell. Of course I wouldn't change things but to say I was unhappy would be an understatement."</blockquote>
See after they turned 2 it seems like it would be fun. 2 newborns sounds awful though. At least until you got them on a schedule.
I can understand the feeling shocked, and overwhelmed at the thought of twins but I think being pissed is a bit ridiculous. As other posters have said they were most likely made aware of the chances of conceiving multiples. If they didn't want multiples well they shouldn't have done IVF.