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Would you do it anyway? user banned
Sep 2nd '13

If you wanted to change your appearance like the color of your hair or style of your hair and your SO didn't want you to and says he would be mad if you did it.. would you do it anyway? I feel like i can't do what i want without him interfering with the decision.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Sep 2nd '13

It depends. If he was against a crazy color, maybe. If I wanted to cut my hair I'd do it anyway.

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
Sep 2nd '13

My hair, my choice

Where's Waldo? Due December 28 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Japan 3734 posts
Sep 2nd '13

I would and he would do the same if it was the other way around.

user banned Due October 23; 1 child; Chi-Town, IL, United States 2435 posts
Sep 2nd '13
Quoting s.a.r.a.:" It depends. If he was against a crazy color, maybe. If I wanted to cut my hair I'd do it anyway."


Hes against me dying it any color. Or getting a perm.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Sep 2nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Kelz*~:</b>" Hes against me dying it any color. Or getting a perm. "</blockquote>



Yeah, that's dumb. Do you tell him what to do with his hair?



He'll get over it, do what you want. Lol

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Sep 2nd '13

I take his opinion into consideration but in the end I choose what I want.

Lin Brown TTC since May 2015; 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1941 posts
Sep 2nd '13

i would take his opinion into consideration and ask like what color or hair style he would like me to do, but i would never go behind his back and do it anyways just because then that would just cause a unneccessary fight or argument

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Sep 2nd '13

Honestly no body is going to tell me what I can and can not do with my own hair.

Just Emily :) Due November 13; 2 kids; Aberdeen, Sd, United States 15147 posts
Sep 2nd '13

It's easier to get forgiveness than permission lol

Cat.Woman. Due January 15 (boy); 1 child; Gotham City, PA, United States 4537 posts
Sep 2nd '13

I do whatever I want to my hair. He's seen me with bright red hair, dark brown, almost black with pink, and blonde. He prefers me blonde, so I take that into consideration. I ask his opinion, but it's not a deciding factor for me.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
Sep 2nd '13

Ugh yeah, it's my hair, I'd do what I wanted.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Sep 2nd '13

I may ask his opinion and consider it, but at the end I will do as I like with my body. He does what he wants with his. I am not a doll for him to play dress up with. I am not a fixture for him to make sure I compliment the style he feels I should have. I am a person, and I'll do as I like. Thankfully, he understands this and is well aware that telling me not to do something is probably the fastest way to get me to do it, lol

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4500 posts
Sep 2nd '13

I always ask DHs opinions before I do anything to my hair -- just to get suggestions, but ultimately it's my hair, so it's my choice.